Here's what you don't get and have failed to learn and understand due to having your understanding darkened by following doctrine not taught by the Lord:
John 15:1,2
I am the true vine, and my Father is the husbandman. Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit. John 15:5 IF A MAN ABIDE NOT IN ME, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.
*** WHO... is to do the abiding according to Jesus???? That’s right, WE are!
John 15:4,5
Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me. I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
*** WHO... is to do the abiding according to Jesus???? That’s right, WE are!
John 15:8-10
Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples. As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love. If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love.
HOW are we to abide in Christ, thru our own strength and ability???
NO... thru the Lord Who strengthens us!
Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
It's too bad you OSAS fellas don't accept the whole counsel of God... you missing out on some good stuff from the Lord!
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But you are not abiding in Him are you. You have fallen back to trusting in your own faithfulness, your own steadfastness. This must involve keeping the commandments, obeying the law for what other measurement of righteousness [God's righteousness excepted] is there? Then the church would need to have judges but God has not appointed any judges for the church, it is not a Christian ministry.
Anyone who judges is self appointed.
We are abiding in Christ and in His once for all time and eternity sacrifice. Jesus is not going to come and die for sins again is He therefore if He has not borne all your sin, past present and future on the cross, there is no further sacrifice ... this is exactly what the writer of Hebrews says, not that we lose our salvation but that we must return to the once and forever sacrifice of the cross.
Past present and future sins all washed away including murders and homosexuality, but it is legitimate for us evaluate whether such were saved in the first place.
The church has been given the mechanism to deal with all these things and none of them include damnation see.
There was a notable sinner at Corinth, he was committing sexual sin with his mother, that ranks with any sin. The solution Paul gave was for the guy to be chucked out of the assembly and delivered unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh
that the spirit may be saved. He later repented and Paul ordered that the assembly should receive him and comfort him.
I don't know I think most every Christian backslides, usually [I did] within days of being saved and what we do is go back to that sin which is familiar to us [that is what my OP is about] I say a homosexual is in very real danger of going back to that in that first fierce temptation. If our salvation was real we will be very, very sorrowful about it and resolve to never go back to it again ... the root of sin that was in us is gone and we can no longer enjoy the sin lifestyle.
We have to learn to overcome all sin and be victorious.
The no one lesson to learn is to KNOW that sin is gone forever, washed away, cut up at the roots. If you don't KNOW that you will certainly backslide.
I had a young lady got saved, very attractive she was, very worldly yet she got saved. She had been dumped by a very mean boyfriend and was heartbroke.
Guess who visited that night in the late hours? yes it was him, he'd heard she had become a Christian and thought he would test her out ... sure enough she fell [how easy it is for girls] and he laughed cruelly at her and left her twice the mess she had been before.
Oh when I saw her she was sobbing her heart out "I'll never be any good I'm just a common slut" even before the words left her mouth and before I heard her God spoke to me "What God hath cleansed thou shalt not call common"
"what does it mean? what does it mean?" she wailed ... fearful of what I would say. But I only had GOOD NEWS for her. I explained that God had heard her prayer and she was forgiven, she was now a daughter, a child of God etc.
She went on with the Lord, and became a useful member of the local assembly.