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Well folks, it's been a nice 3 days back here at CC, but I shall bid farewell, again. I just cannot handle even another oz of stress in my life, because I am at a breaking point as it is. A police officer and a crisis worker were here last night checking up on me .. and that was so amazing to know that they cared about me.
When I come on CC and get private msg's like the one below, it really kills me. My head is not right to begin with .. and there is so much hurt and anxiety/depression inside of me to last a lifetime .. pardon me if I cannot reply to pm's right away. My head is elsewhere lots of times. This person that wrote this (I won't mention any names) needs to know that they are not the only one that I have not replied to. There are also slave, etc .. that I planned to reply to when I have a few minutes with a clear mind.
So I'm so sorry for not being attentive enough to your needs, however I come first right now. I am really broken. Someday with the help of Jesus, I will get better. I believe that HE will help me. Until then .. I will continue to pray and go to church.
Miss you all, already.
Best,
Heather
When I come on CC and get private msg's like the one below, it really kills me. My head is not right to begin with .. and there is so much hurt and anxiety/depression inside of me to last a lifetime .. pardon me if I cannot reply to pm's right away. My head is elsewhere lots of times. This person that wrote this (I won't mention any names) needs to know that they are not the only one that I have not replied to. There are also slave, etc .. that I planned to reply to when I have a few minutes with a clear mind.
So I'm so sorry for not being attentive enough to your needs, however I come first right now. I am really broken. Someday with the help of Jesus, I will get better. I believe that HE will help me. Until then .. I will continue to pray and go to church.
Miss you all, already.
Best,
Heather
Don't leave, Heather. You can turn off your PM's so you won't get messages like that.. PLEASE don't leave. Just stay out of certain forums and threads.. Resist the urge to reply to stupid stuff that people post to you..and employ the iggy button.. It will make a world of difference for your stress level..
Looks like someone twisting your arm in an attempt to oppress you with guilt to get you to be a friend.
1 Corinthians 13:[SUP]4 [/SUP]Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,[SUP] 5 [/SUP]Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;[SUP]6 [/SUP]Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
No one can force any one to be a friend; they can only be a friend in waiting.
If most of the private messages are from guys, may I suggest changing your avatar out with a cat to discouraged any more love sick puppies vying for your attention? Just a thought.... if all or most of those private messages are coming from guys.
Anyway, sorry you are going through that. You can always keep your avatar and take blue_ladybug's advise and disable the Private Messaging system, and put anybody whom can't seem to take no for an answer on Ignore... like she says.
1 Corinthians 13:[SUP]4 [/SUP]Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,[SUP] 5 [/SUP]Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;[SUP]6 [/SUP]Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
No one can force any one to be a friend; they can only be a friend in waiting.
If most of the private messages are from guys, may I suggest changing your avatar out with a cat to discouraged any more love sick puppies vying for your attention? Just a thought.... if all or most of those private messages are coming from guys.
Anyway, sorry you are going through that. You can always keep your avatar and take blue_ladybug's advise and disable the Private Messaging system, and put anybody whom can't seem to take no for an answer on Ignore... like she says.
