Playing nicely. That is what is on my mind. Here is what I can't understand. When some people talk about biblical topics how is it that they can be so cutting and cruel to others who do not share their views? Shouldn't it be the hallmark of Christians that our words are seasoned with grace? We should be able to talk about anything, and be patient and kind. We should be intelligent and able to challenge each other in a positive way but there is no place for being insulting or condescending. I've jumped out of a few threads, not because they disagreed with my viewpoint, but a few were being so rude that no real conversation could happen. How can some be so disagreeable while claiming a relationship with Christ? I say that knowing my own faults, and I can give a list if asked, but my thoughts are on how we treat each other here, in the church and in life in general. That is what is on my mind and rather than a critique it is a sincere bid to discuss how we could model our faith when we interact with each other.
(Personally I've had really nice contact with people here and the one that was sharp with me was kind after I explained myself.) I mean this with no tone.