Sydlit, honestly you need to calm down. I am HARDLY a dictator..lol.. but you're the one who started in with the snide comment about skylove in response to another poster's response to her. I'm NOT sitting in judgment of anyone, but myself and others have seen the posts between you and her on this, and other, forums. I haven't "shot any arrows" at you. You'd know it if I did. I don't play the favoritism card here. Or anywhere for that matter. But I DO speak out the truth when it's needed, and the truth is often hard to hear and accept. There was no need for you to make that snide comment about skylove, nor was there any need for her comments in the past, and today, that call you "bizarre".. Ever since you joined this site, you've bemoaned the fact that people have criticized you. Well, this IS an open site, and we ALL get criticized at one time or another. Yes, even me..lol.. All I meant by my other post is people should think first before they blurt out a response. So calm down and breathe..[/QUOTE]Telling somebody to shut up isnt firing arrows?! YOU are the one that needs to think before you speak, especially when its none of your business. I said nothing wrong, and you stuck your nose where it doesnt belong and made assumptions, and then chose to publicly slam me...again! No favoritism?! Pah! I have a list this long. You like to play mother hen here, and then tell the ppl you selectively slam to calm down? Pah again. And would you care to see the disgusting posts, pm, and even emails I've received from your innocent angel. Dont even get me started. You can read what I said again. I wrote one sentence, you chose to put your own spin on it and then accuse me of your own thinking. Nice try. My conscience is clear on this and the previous matter as well. For all your self-righteous dictating to others and how they should 'behave', your methods of Christian reconcilliation leave alot to be desired. This whole thing is a real shame, and it happened because of spite and false accusations that were never properly addressed or apologized for. I have settled this matter, ppl are gonna think and accuse what they want to, I can't stop that, but your jumping into water where you don't belong is causing a big splash and other ppl to get wet and it's not fair to them. Let it go, most of us are grown ups here, and don't need others intruding, however self-justified it may be. I will say for the last time, I will dialogue/pm with anyone in a civil way to resolve any issues to bring ourselves closer to each other and Jesus. If that's not good enough, then follow this post up with another public flaying, it's not very becoming, but I can't stop you. The good folks here didn't need this. I have prayed for you, the other parties, and everyone here on this site, and will continue to do so. I'm done wasting the Lord's time with this. You do as you please, but instead of butting in and telling ppl to shut up, maybe a pm and/or an honest prayer from your end would be much more effective in bringing brothers and sisters in Christ closer together. My apologies to anyone who had to witness this, it was never, NEVER my intention to cause any harm, or even have this happen, and I'll sign this, Yours, for Jesus' sake, sincerely, syd.