here again is the scripture you asked for and which I kindly posted
you totally ignored it, again, because it does not fit with what you believe
there is not way to have either an intelligent conversation when someone plays that way and certainly not an honest conversation so others can mess with you if they feel so inclined
so here is the scripture:
2 As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, 2 in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3 All of us also lived among them at one time,gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved.
Paul is writing to the Ephesian believers and reminding them of how they used to live. where in this portion of scripture do you see anything whatsoever about God giving His Spirit to someone who was dead in their sins? there is nothing there that says anything even close to that
by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast” (Eph 2:8-9)
salvation is the gift of God. we do not work for salvation. it is God's gift
notice we are SAVED THROUGH FAITH...that is, we put our faith in Christ...THEN we are saved and then we receive the Holy Spirit. you have it backwards. no scripture states we receive the Holy Spirit to make us believe. you cannot find that scripture because it does not exist
the Calvinist viewpoint is that only the ones God chooses are saved and that confuses people and may have confused you
here is what John the Apostle writes about that:
2 He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world. I John 2:2
and some people go the other way and say that means that the entire world will be saved which is also wrong
this is what Jesus Himself says in chapter 3 of John
14 Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness,so the Son of Man must be lifted up, 15 that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him.”
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned,but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.
when Jesus talks about being lifted up, He means the cross upon which He died. what does He say? Jesus says EVERYONE...EVERYONE...anyone who wants to...may have eternal life IN Him. this means we have a choice as v. 16 goes on to say
Jesus does NOT say only the ones predestined and He does not say everyone in the world will believe. He DOES say everyone who does believe is accepted
read the opening chapters of the book of Acts. that is when the Holy Spirit fell upon the believers. note: THE DISCIPLES WERE ALREADY BELIEVERS AND WERE FOLLOWERS OF JESUS. so how did they believe if God had not yet sent the Holy Spirit to indwell us who believe? some may see this as a two fold act as Jesus had breathed on the disciples and said 'receive the Holy Spirit' but how do you explain the fact that they were told to wait in Jerusalem to receive the Holy Spirit ? how could they already believe in Jesus without being filled?
there is no evidence that God forces people to believe in Him. rather, as we read in the Psalms, EVERYTHING God has created reveals Him to humankind.
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