Love = free will.
If we surrender our will to God, to do His will, this is our choice.
If God takes away the blessings or blesses, it is not forcing the will.
When Balaam saw the angel with the sword, Balaam chose to repent.
God could have let Moses go into the promised land, but no, God stopped him, and Moses died before crossing the Jordan.
When God enforces His judgments, it is not the same as God forcing the will.
The God I serve lets me choose if I will serve Him or not.
If we surrender our will to God, to do His will, this is our choice.
If God takes away the blessings or blesses, it is not forcing the will.
When Balaam saw the angel with the sword, Balaam chose to repent.
God could have let Moses go into the promised land, but no, God stopped him, and Moses died before crossing the Jordan.
When God enforces His judgments, it is not the same as God forcing the will.
The God I serve lets me choose if I will serve Him or not.
What about you? Have you ever prayed that God would change something about your character that you couldn't change yourself?
With your ability to choose, I wouldn't imagine that you need the Lord for anything.
As for Love equaling "free will" I would say that every good parent wishes that they could determine the thoughts of their child, to place them on a right and better path. They feel this way because they Love their child. Because of their Love for their child, they wish they could control them . . . but no parent can do such a thing.
Our God, however, can grab hold of our thoughts:
John 6:44 NLT - "For no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them to me, and at the last day I will raise them up."
Well, that's what happened to me . . . and I am thankful.
So far, I've offered over eighty passages that deal with "free will." What do you think of them?