I am saying repentance is a change of mind or heart, Oe of being an enemy of God, to one of hearing wehat God has to say, and agreeing with him.
It takes time for me to really take this in and seeing the problem. In the middle of this is the lie a missed emphasis.
Sin is an action that destroys and denies the relationship between two people or between God and oneself.
It says the other does not matter or how they will react, just the action to meet some need within matters.
In its most fundamental form the other could die, be destroyed and it would not matter. In one sense you can sin against yourself, dealing with yourself in a pure destructive manner, which is why suicide is thought of as a sin. The law has nothing to say about self destruction, probably because it is obviously counter productive.
We all have the potential to be unselfish, to put others higher.
Now the conviction that we sin, we destroy others, we cut them out to the point of death, should grieve anyone, should cut them to the heart, should show them that selfishness can rise to the point it washes away all that we hold most dear. When you see that it truly flies in the face of idealism, or righteousness or all the pompous things we think about ourselves and comes with a cry to God, help us, deliver us, remake us.
And He can through seeing love, having it touch us, embrace us in the core of our being and for us to know we are not alone, we are understood, washed and purified, at home in heaven, with our Lord through faith in cross and Him.
Now you say this is just agreeing with God. You know nothing, an empty vessel, full of untold desires and inspirations, tossed and turned trying to get it right and failing but not knowing why.
At the foot of the cross I fall, because here love showed how much it cares for me, and what really matters.
What is shocking to me, you have a similar language to me, but a very different experience and a desire to tear down, attack, destroy another. This is the opposite of the message of love and the cross.
To say I am self-righteous is not to understand the cross at all or what it means to say, "I am a man undone."