Jn 10:10
Jesus the Good Shepherd
…9I am the gate. If anyone enters through Me, he will be saved. He will come in and go out and find pasture. 10
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life, and have it in all its fullness. 11I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down His life for the sheep.…'
The Joyful Return
…18So He said to them, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven. 19
See, I have given you authority to tread on snakes and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy. Nothing will harm you. 20Nevertheless, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.”…
My daughter went to heaven a few years ago at 33. I was there as she lay on the stretcher. Her husband and my son were there with the ambulance workers. I KNEW she could have been brought back to life, but when I said 'come back' the lady attendant said 'oh that can't happen'. I said Jesus brought Lazarus back and then the other guy said 'well that was then'. My son and son-in-law are believers but unfortunately at that time, their faith wasn't there for that. Bringing people, by faith, back from the dead is not that uncommon, to those with the faith for it.
My suffering/remorse, was in that we didn't act sooner to help her addiction before it got to that point.
The saints who suffer for Christ and don't bow down, are doing it for Christ's sake. Paul was afflicted with a ailment because God didn't want Paul to be exhaulted.
Some Christians don't believe that the Scripture 'By His stripes we are healed' means healing however many do and are healed.
I know we will have a period of mourning for the passing of loved ones, but does God WANT us to suffer, I think not. Those who choose to suffer for His sake, is commendable and they will be so blest in Heaven. But the Body of Christ should be over-comers and conquerors through the Blood of the Lamb and our testimony of Faith in His Goodness.