If one is truly mature in Christ, he or she will be most interested in equipping the younger generation. They will not set them selves up as an elitist in a tower, unreachable.
We see this in the natural with parents. Parents who love their children invest in their children and are at all times accessible by their children. In my youth, my parents were not elitist, but they certainly were superior to me, and I had much to learn from them. Because of this, they made themselves available to me and loved me. This is a stark contrast to superiors who can only be reached by extreme measures or by appointment.
in scripture, certainly Jesus was superior to his disciples. Paul, also, understood that he was the one in charge among the Corinthians, for example. He was not equal to them as far as the grace was concerned. Even so, he understood that the grace given to him was for the benefit of those he cared for. That’s how a true leader lives his life: as a servant to the younger generation.