If this is the case, the verses about God wanting all to be saved are USELESS verses. Since He actually doesn't want all to be saved, because of the HIGHER REASONS you mentioned.
Nope, your misinterpretations of them are useless. The higher reason is properly interpreted Scripture in context, something you ridiculed in dialog with me, while refusing to provide any commentator who supports your false gospel. Actually you refused to answer because you cannot prove your fallacy with contextual interpretation.
How much evidence did you supply Scripturally to support you, with commentary as well? Not. A. One.
But don't worry about that, sweep the serious matter under the rug and keep on taking Scripture out of context to support you, pay no attention to context.
There is just no good way to put it. The doctrine of God picking and choosing everyone who is saved and who is not saved just does not line up with the Bible.
The doctrine is biblical, thus it lines up with the Bible, it just doesn't line up with you.
God chooses, and only the elect are saved, Soli Deo Gloria. You just don't happen to like that, so, you've made your own version of how things should be.
John 6:44-66; Romans 9:20, well, they didn't like this either, so at least you have company.
You also deny Scripture that implicitly states we are not saved via decision, and you also mix in that you did something good then God saved you. In other words you are a good boy, did something and were rewarded. Congrats, you can now boast in you and make pretense it's really Soli Deo Gloria no matter the evidence to the contrary in your gospel! You did it! Yay!!!
Now, bash others who preach the truth that it was and is all God, not their decision, not because they did something good like choosing, but due to nothing good in them, but that he chose them, just like Scripture states.
Bash away, call them arrogant.
Wait...hmmmm...isn't the one boasting of being chosen due to something he did the one who is arrogant? Yep. Boasting is excluded, but not in your gospel. But never mind that glaring truth, just sweep it under the rug too.
And never mind what 1 Corinthians 1:26-31 says, (don't bother to look there, you'll just spin it to you and claim what you've done as the real cause). Just explain it all away with your tradition, and boast away!
The logical end of your gospel is that you're in Christ because of YOU and elected because of YOU. Therefore you aren't Soli Deo Gloria, you're Pars Hominis Gloria, or perhaps even Soli Hominis Gloria.