Sorry to say about your friend in loving Grace and Truth, that she is a seed of the 'spirit' of anti-CHRIST. With all due respect to you as another women, not in offending nor practicing any authority, please let me give you just one Scripture, as only GOD to judge 'right' and 'fair' this matter.
As it is written;
"Women are not allowed to teach nor practice authority over men."
Unknowingly or knowingly twisting GOD's Word as it is written, is only a deception caused by the 'flesh/carnal' and it's 'passions' and 'desires' wisdom and acts in accordance to the traditions of men, similar to this perishing world, that may 'sound wise' and they 'did what was pleasing in their sight'.
And according to the Word of GOD, there is no mention of women pastors/leaders but only men, written according to 1 Timothy chapter 3, and in verse 2, it is written;
"Therefore 'an overseer' must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, .............. He ............ He .............."
Women are therefore allowed to prophesy and pray, with 'a covering', according to 1 Corinthians chapter 11.
Prophesying is about, some 'revelation' or 'knowledge' or 'prophecy' or 'teaching' of the Holy Scripture and according to the Holy Scripture, of the Holy Bible.
You may share these with your friend and also this, that hating another Christian, even a 'weak leader' and justifying another vain doctrine, is 'murder' and 'sexual immorality', fruits of the 'flesh/carnal'. Please also pray for her, to GOD, to forgive her and help her understand what is Spiritual and that is already written and already established, as the New Covenant, for all believer to believe and have faith in 'one' and 'abide' in them and be fruitful and their fruit must also 'abide'.
Thank you, i merely an unworthy servant of CHRIST, just doing my duty and be blessed, your friend and you, in the name of LORD JESUS CHRIST.