will you help me out?

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I hate feeling left out or not involved with something, that feeling makes me feel empty and useless and I hate feeling that way because I know that I'm not. and I just want to know if there is ways to not feel this way when these feelings come onto you.
 
Lol thank you but I meant in general, not just on here, although i do sometimes on here because of my age
 
Just remember that you are never alone when it comes to God. He is with you always!!!
 
I hate feeling left out or not involved with something, that feeling makes me feel empty and useless and I hate feeling that way because I know that I'm not. and I just want to know if there is ways to not feel this way when these feelings come onto you.

Oh this breaks my heart. What are they leaving you out of? Sometimes kids get left out because there are things they want to protect them from like things that might make them sad or things that they shouldn't worry about, and sometimes people get left out just because something is private and they don't want anyone to know about it.

Don't worry, it happens to everybody and no one likes it. And just because they left you out doesn't mean they don't love you. They probably left you out because they do love you and don't want you to have to deal with what they are dealing with.
 
I used to feel left out all the time. As you get older that will change, its just you are young right now and some things will just be over your head.
It's nothing to do with YOU, this problem will fix with time. Also its most likely better not to know everything. I've gotten older and I don't like knowing as much as I am told.
 
I hate feeling left out or not involved with something, that feeling makes me feel empty and useless and I hate feeling that way because I know that I'm not. and I just want to know if there is ways to not feel this way when these feelings come onto you.

well i have felt this before and it still happens......It is pain i think we should try to go through to help us endure, cause if ya never felt this before....imaging what would happen it it hit ya 20 years later.....you might go suicidal or depressed, because you would say to yourself "i have never felt so bad in my life" and/or be displeased......

so what i am saying is we should do it so when it happens again we increase our endurance for the next time it happens. :)
 
you guys are young teenagers. It's more or less a phase. It goes away just give it time lol.. It's your emotional levels and body changes effects. Puberty happens to everyone.
 
I must agree with xJoe., it happens to all of us! At that age (especially women - due to hormones), but yes, young men aswell, you feel as if no one takes you seriously, and that they don't understand you. You are becoming a young lady, and theres a lot of stuff on your mind! But you will get over it. And the Bible verses 'Zerotolerance' gave you, you can put it in your heart! Remember us humans don't always understand, but Jesus always understands, and He knows everything you are going through. Keep strong, and dont feel undermined.

sorry im not english - i struggle sometimes to get the right words.

hope it helps a little bit :)
 
I hate feeling left out or not involved with something, that feeling makes me feel empty and useless and I hate feeling that way because I know that I'm not. and I just want to know if there is ways to not feel this way when these feelings come onto you.


hi samme.
readmat.11:27--30

wakeup.
 
Samme its alright to feel like this at your age your just changing i remember being 13 and i felt like i just didnt belong. one good thing for you is you have God i didnt. Also rmeember that God might just be working on you at this moment in time. God never unveils his works to the world until they are completed. ok. (ps i still sometimes feel alone but I remember God)