School sucks to >_<

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I've got school again tomorow...like most kids do...and it is really stressing me out because now I have to go back to being alone and getting picked on and being in trouble all the time. I hate being at home but at least ive got my music and the Internet to keep me happy but schools just a complete battleground and I get the feeling im on the losing side. I don't have many friends at school because I hate a lot of people - I have reasons for them tho. My friends don't really hang out with me much because I'm to wierd and they don't understand what's going on in my head. The other people at school just sort of hate me to. Well they treat me like that anyway. I wish school was more help in life. Like maybe it doesng have to make me feel like I'm slowly dying on the inside every moment im there? Idk but I don't really help myself much...ive had 2 weeks of and ive done basically no homework but if I don't like the subject i don't see the point of spending my free time - the time which could be spent working on things that matter for me, things which make me feel normal and good - on something which will just bring back all the emptyness of school. I know i am probably over exaggerating it all but it's 12am and im tired and I do not want to go to school tomorow or today or whatever. Adults suck. School sucks. A lot of things suck in my life. Well I give it to life, at least it's consistent.
 
Bro i feel your pain! My school year has sucked to. Most of my best friends have left and going to college (im a senior in high school). I also had to drop Calculus 2 because of my teacher and now Im having to drop a class from an English teacher I loved from the first semester, because she is choosing a book with is racist and sexually explict. On top of that, im trying to get a scholarship but the last 2 times i took the SAT i failed :(. I came within 40 pts >:( music is a wonderful thing and its a main thing thats kept me hanging in there alot of times. Im sorry man, if u ever need some encouragement just pm bro. I may not answer immediately (due to busy schedule). Just try to hang in bro, thats all i can do this year :(
 
Wow, I completely understand how you feel. I've never liked many of my classmates either. Like Quake10 said, just stay in there. You only go to high school for 4 years, and then you never have to see it again. Look forward to the rest of your life, I'm sure it will be awesome! And if you feel lonely, find something you love and focus your energy on that. When I feel lonely, I read or get on youtube. And your life doesn't suck, it could be a lot worse. Think of the things that make it great! Have an awesome night! And pm if you ever want to talk! :D
 
Dude I feel your pain! Standardized testing can be awful, are you taking it again? If so, studying in your weakest thing the night before really helps. Take practice tests too. My score went up 120 points because I prepared a little. Any amount of preparation helps!
 
This being my senior year as well. It doesn't matter if your friends think your weird or not. Just be you. School can suck sometimes, for me, I'm so ready to be done, but hey! Make the most of it. I learned from one of my teachers to 'get off the escalator when it's not working'. Once you understand that term, you'll understand so much more! This teachers has also given me a lot of insight on my Christian life and she's not suppose to say anything about it since it's a public school! But she doesn't care because I won't turn her in. Don't give up bud. You are learning things every day, wether you like it or not. But maybe what you're learning, might be useful in the future. Again, with the friends, go make new ones! Find people who like you for you, and don't say hate! Hate is such a nasty word. Hating someone is almost as bad as wishing death upon someone. It's not going to be easy. God never said it would be, and you're right, life sucks sometimes, but it's how you look at it and how you live it that matters! And also, do all this as if it were for the greater glory of God! Need me, message me. I'm up almost all the time, unless I'm working. I don't sleep much. Take care :)
 
Levichevett said:
I don't have many friends at school because I hate a lot of people - I have reasons for them tho.

...ive had 2 weeks of and ive done basically no homework but if I don't like the subject i don't see the point of spending my free time - the time which could be spent working on things that matter for me, things which make me feel normal and good - on something which will just bring back all the emptyness of school. .
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I don't know what your day in school is like, but if you hate someone, you cannot expect them to love you in return.
Hate breeds hate. If your friends treat you differently in school than at home: Get better friends

As for not doing homework: Do you think you can play video games all your life? Where will your salary come from?
What will you do if you fail your classes and know you never even tried to pass?
 
I feel the same really.
I'm on my last year in high school and I feel mostly everyone around me are immature and clueless. I just keep my head down, not bothering anyone else and I usually get that favor returned.

Focus on shutting those you feel angry at out and work towards making a clear plan of the future in your head. It's tough for definite....just keep at it and great things will come your way (Sorry if that sounded cliche ;))
 
Levichevett said:
I've got school again tomorow...like most kids do...and it is really stressing me out because now I have to go back to being alone and getting picked on and being in trouble all the time. I hate being at home but at least ive got my music and the Internet to keep me happy but schools just a complete battleground and I get the feeling im on the losing side. I don't have many friends at school because I hate a lot of people - I have reasons for them tho. My friends don't really hang out with me much because I'm to wierd and they don't understand what's going on in my head. The other people at school just sort of hate me to. Well they treat me like that anyway. I wish school was more help in life. Like maybe it doesng have to make me feel like I'm slowly dying on the inside every moment im there? Idk but I don't really help myself much...ive had 2 weeks of and ive done basically no homework but if I don't like the subject i don't see the point of spending my free time - the time which could be spent working on things that matter for me, things which make me feel normal and good - on something which will just bring back all the emptyness of school. I know i am probably over exaggerating it all but it's 12am and im tired and I do not want to go to school tomorow or today or whatever. Adults suck. School sucks. A lot of things suck in my life. Well I give it to life, at least it's consistent.
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I can totally relate to the horrible feeling of starting a new semester. The time off (especially if it was fun spent with the family) makes having to go back that much worse.

Unfortunately, part of growing up is having to do more and more things we may not necessarily WANT to do because we realize we HAVE to do them. I wish I could tell you this gets easier as you get older, but it really becomes compounded the older we get and the more responsibilities we have. When you're a kid, you can spend time doing things that make you happy or things that are relaxing.

Your secular education is paramount to living a life out of bondage, allowing for more of the luxuries and commodities that entertain/relax you when you are an adult. I would encourage you to diligently do the homework in all your classes... even the classes you think are not useful or beneficial for you. When you go to college, they require you to do your basic education. It is important to have a balanced education as this makes you more versatile and an even bigger commodity to employers. I know it may seem pointless right now, but please just take my word for it! :)

About getting in trouble in school and kids picking on you: There isn't a one-solution-fixes-all that I could tell you. All I can say is do not fight fire with fire. Protect yourself by first trying to preemptively avoid scenarios where you will be tempted to do things you ought not to do. I don't know what level of being picked on you are going through... unfortunately, most everyone has gone through some form of bullying. If you would ever like to talk about the bullying, feel free to message me anytime.

I just wanted to leave this scripture:

Ephesians 4:14-15

[SUP]14 [/SUP]Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. [SUP]15 [/SUP]Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.
 
Really sad to read all that. I hope you find some proper friends soon. Or maybe there's a really good teacher there. I hope so.

I saw the 'school sucks' bit and wanted to say no it doesn't. I am sorry it does for you but I like my school. It is a good school with good teachers. I don't have many friends but I have some good friends. I enjoy learning and at my school there are lots of activities not just lessons. It is just as well I enjoy it here because I am a boarder.

My Christmas hols with family were wonderful but I was looking forward to being back here and catching up with friends and teachers once the New Year started. :)
 
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