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so i really really really really really really really really really like this boy and well he's not on the same level with God as i am.... should i still date him???? hes asked me out like in a group dateing and all.....what should i do? and could everyone pray for him that he would get to know God really.
 
i dont think Gods really telling me either way.... he believes in God... we had a very long convo about that last nightl.... i think hes been influested by mormends somewhere along the line.... he seams to believe that heavens not big enough for all of us and that he wants to give his ticket away for someone else to go.... i've been exsplaining to him till i was blue in the face that thats not how it works.... he seamed to slightly get it.... his last thing was that he would go with whatever i told him....
 
Hmmm tough one.
who knows, this may be the guy youre meant to be with, and again, its maybe not right?
4 letters for ya - PRAY.

I hope you make the right decision ;)
 
oh i have been..... and will be! thanks! hes just so sweet....i think hed make a really good christian....lol i hope this works out
 
If you are spiritually mature enough God throws people in our lives so we can help them. For example I was dating this girl and I really liked her for maybe a month and a half and we were really happy! Than one day God was just like look I dont want you with her anymore and I promise it will work out for the best. Turns out it did she explained to me how her last boyfriend abused her and took advantage of her and I showed her some guys are okay. It was a mutual break up and because I showed her God God told her the same. We are still really good friends to this day Im even on the phone telling her I wrote this haha!

Moral of the story is if you listen to God anything is possible! And if he does believe god is real than technically your relationship is biblical.
 
If you are spiritually mature enough God throws people in our lives so we can help them. For example I was dating this girl and I really liked her for maybe a month and a half and we were really happy! Than one day God was just like look I dont want you with her anymore and I promise it will work out for the best. Turns out it did she explained to me how her last boyfriend abused her and took advantage of her and I showed her some guys are okay. It was a mutual break up and because I showed her God God told her the same. We are still really good friends to this day Im even on the phone telling her I wrote this haha!

Moral of the story is if you listen to God anything is possible! And if he does believe god is real than technically your relationship is biblical.

haha well i think that would aply to me 100%.... glad it worked out though.... i just really want this to work but...maybe its not the right time...seams like i've got some serus praying to do
 
If he is just going to go with what you tell him, that is not a good thing. Get him rooted in the scripture, but encourage him to make his own mind FROM the scriptures.
 
If he is just going to go with what you tell him, that is not a good thing. Get him rooted in the scripture, but encourage him to make his own mind FROM the scriptures.
ohh well i wasnt sure if that was good or bad.....i'm trying to get him to God on his own...i want him to go to church this sunday but i know what hes gonna say hes goonna say I STAY UP TILL 6 EVERY NIGHT OR LATER AND SLEEP TILL 2 EVERY DAY! THERE AINT NO WAY I'MA GET UP AT 930 TO GO TO CHURCH WITH MY SIS AND DAD (they go to church with me) soooo pray he just has to sleep and is up at 9 sunday lol. :p
 
yea a lot.....BUT he started to get annoying cuz all he decied he wanted to talk about was sex so i told him buh bye and am not talking to him again......lol i'm srry about him though... i wanted him saved..... oh well still gonna pray for him.
 
I am very proud of you and you did do the right thing. The only thing you can do now is pray for him and hopefully he will come to know the Lord. Stay on the path your on with the Lord and in time you will get your heart desire.
 
thank you.... he was like the first real non christian boy i had ever had as my real friend for a bit....there sooooo different then all my other firends....its amazing.... but i think it was good i did meet him...now ik....
 
hmmm dear what a wonderfull feeling love is just dont date him while he is not saved pray to GOd to show you if he is the one or not
pray that he changes.
 
yea it is... its just when you find something out that interupts that...then it kinda hurts... i dont know if its possible for me to not like him but i'm trying to just let him go...i think ima be nice to him and try to just show him Gods love...not mine... thank you i am and always will pray he will...