No self confidence

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Hutchy

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Basically i have a problem talking to new people and can only really be comfortable i'v been around for a long time and i need help to come out of this :(
 
I've been the same way for a VERY long time esp. when it came to dating my ex was my comfort zone because he was in my life for 4years.

well you came to the right place. pray and ask God to help you get rid of that insecurity sometimes you have to go out of your comfort zone say hello to people. see if you and others have the same things in common. you Dont have to tell them everything since you said "i can only really be comfortable i'v been around for a long time" i can understand that it takes time to get to know people. but like i said give it a try or you can miss out on getting to know other cool people.


anymore advice write back ask me anything and i can help you!. :) Good luck
 
It's something about prayer, bro in Christ! Sometimes u'll face difficulties and u don't know what 2 do, but u have 2 trust in God, He cares about u! Really. Pray about it, and i'll keep u in my prayers:D Gbu = God bless u :)
 
It's normal to have this problem at your age :). You'll build up more self-confidence as you get out there and have people-interaction and build skills.

Having a part time job is GREAT for learning a skill and how to interact with people. Working at a fast-food restaurant is where new workers usually begin. I think everyone should work in fast-food ....very educating :) .

Don't sit at home and expect to gain self-confidence; it won't work. Get out there and get involved! Sure you'll have awkward experiences but that's how you learn. Don't be afraid of making mistakes :).
 
hey...cheer up!!! you are God's masterpiece..start declaring who you want to be..as Joel Osteen say..There is the power of declaration..The power of I AM
i am accepted
i am loved
i am talented
i am annointed
i am forgiven
i am blessed
i am strong
i am GOd child...etc..
start declaring that evryday and you will live by it.. thats the power of your tongue:)