Jelousyish?

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Well like I will just come out and say it right now.

I dont like the way I look lol

But I am kinda jelousish of those with good looks and celebrities with good looks (Like i would love to look like Alex Pettyfer)

I am blessed with what I have and I AM thankful

I just wish I wasnt so ugly.

I know that god doesnt think I am but I still feel it

(I know everyone ish like ugly in the heart because of sin and such so plese dont like bring that up lol)
 
Ugly and pretty are preference. You might think your ugly but others could be attracted to you.
And actually bad looks are great to have if you think about it. Do you want people being your friend for how you look or try to take advantage of you because of that? Having good looks is a people pleasing thing. Saul was a excellent looking King. People admired him for his power ect ect and then he forsook God and went his own way.
1 Samuel 16:7
But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.

Be accepted by God.
 
Handsome, ugly, rich, poor, blah, blah, blah... It's really not that important. I do not believe you are ugly, even though i have never seen you before. I think you may just have low self esteem physically. There is a reason God made you like that, he has prepared the perfect life for you, which is not bound by looks. He loves you and wants to spend eternity with you, that is what matters.
 
I can look really scruffy at times if I don't have a hair cut and shave, sometimes bording einsteinian lol.
I'm not jealous of others, but I do think about how I should present myself sometimes. Worry about the things you can change first or what you can do, not what you don't have.. would be a motto of mine if I had one lol
 
Listen if your comparing yourself to celebrity's thats not a fair comparison. They have teams of people who make them look like that, im sure most of them have gotten plastic surgery to make them look so called ''perfect.'' However as i have said in a previous thread before, perfection is boring.

It seems now days men and women struggle both alike with self esteem issues. The worlds standards of being beautiful or attractive are unattainable.

I have a child, and let me tell you, my kid is the most gorgeous lookin thing on this planet, and i dont care what anyone else says on the matter! Thats the way Jesus thinks of you, he looks at you and sees someone beautiful.

I know you may feel ugly, but the fact is you are not. The world may look at you and see something by their standards that isnt perfect, but who cares what they think. You are you, this is what you look like, and they'll just have to get over it, and so will you. Your basically stuck with the way you look, you better start learning to love yourself just as you are, because just as you are is precious to the one who created you.

Whenever you get that lie in your head that your ugly, start praying. Take every thought captive.
 
I know god looks at my heart lol.

I have always been sensitive and such though lol since my dad wasnt really in my life.
 
You don't want people being attracted to you for looks. Friendships and even relationships based on looks are not true and sincere and usually don't end up lasting. lol I used to think the same as you when I was 13.

Take Alex Pettyfer for example. He probably gets all those pretty girls, but those girls most likely dont want him for who he is, but how he looks. Like xJoe said, bad looks are better to have than good, because you will get true love from the people around you. Looks will change, but personality wont.

I once made a sculpture of a man and believe it or not, with my horrible art skills, it actually looked almost human(: Anyways I thought if it was possible for me to breath life into that little sculpture and bring it to life, I would love it no matter how ugly it looked. In fact I would see it as beautiful because it would mean more than a child to me :D. It would be my creation. If the man came to me and said he looked ugly and wanted to look like someone else, I would be offended because I created him with my own hands. You don't need the worlds approval on how to look(: You should want to be loved for who you are, not what you are.

Proverbs 31:30
"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain," Umm okay so at the end it says "but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised," I guess I could change it from woman to man in this case?lol(: but charm is definitely deceitful, beauty is vain. Lol I'm not sure how much that helped but God see's you as a wonderful, and beautiful person and I'm sure LOTS of other people do as well. God Bless(:
 
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