Heartbreak

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Hey so I just wanted to share with everyone what I've been through and how've become a better person and a better Christian through it all. So I had been dating a guy for the past 2 years who is always a Christian, (he was pastors son) during this we had many arguments but besides everything he was the one who made me truly happy and I honestly thought I was going to marry him, we had planed out our future together. Unfortunately he cheated. Not just once, but 3 times and lied a lot. But I was lost in love, although I did not know this at the time, but my heart was no longer with God and that was the problem. I gave him chance after chance. But he just kept lying. Eventually we ended things, I felt so empty without him and to be honest my heart does still feel empty. I don't even know how many times I cried. But after about 5 days it hit me, my heart was not with God anymore. I realised I was no longer living a Godly life. God takes people out of your life if they aren't good for you. I can finally understand his plan, the guy I was dating was no longer good for me. I need to focus on a relationship with God before I can think about being with someone. God will place someone in my life at the right time and place. When I am ready. Although this guy so many bad things in our relationship I can not hate him for it. God put us on this earth to love and forgive the sins but I can not forget the sinner. I've felt that once realising this I've become happier as I know why it has all happened now. I hope this helps anyone who is going through a tough time whether it be a relationship or a friendship. You just have to remember God does everything for your own good, you may not understand it at the time but you will see later in the future. He has a plan for you. You have so much to look forward too. Our God is a great God.
 
Hey Livi! :) Thanks for sharing your testimony, keep growing in your spiritual life. May God bless ya.

Welcome to CC btw. :D
 
I would assume he learned some of his behavior from his father, + teens hormones/testosterone levels. Idk if you ever talked to his father bout this, but this is something that he should know about. A pastor needs to keep his kids in check if not just the church and his wife.
 
I was tempted too, but I didn't want our relationship to get involved in his family life; Didn't want his family to think any different of him. i didn't like that he kept blaming God for his mistakes.
 
Sometimes families do have to intervene. If he is blaming God, sounds like he needs a real role model
 
Yep, Nate is right you need to let his dad know. Normally kids in the church are supposed to look up to their pastor's kids, your ex needs to be a good example. He needs butt whopping from his dad. Let his dad know, your only doing your ex some good. If his family doesn't know and doesn't do anything about it then he may be like that for the rest of his life. So is that better than letting his family know now so he'll have more chances of a better future?
 
So how are you dog Now Livi? I hope you're feeling like your getting your heart back and enjoying your life. I can't comment on the bf thing (no experience there) though I know I'd hate soemone who was lying to me. I just hope your feeling stronger and happier and hope that things just get better and better for you :)
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Zoii
 
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