DESTRUCTIVE ADVICE FOR LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

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Pierre2026

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It's true that many of us are experts at judging long-distance relationships and criticizing others who believe in, and are looking for, their partner. If this doesn't apply to you, let the person search for their partner.

We often remain at a superficial level of acquaintance in our relationships and don't take the time to communicate properly and listen to the other person. This leads to judgment when we don't understand their behavior.

In reality, good communication is absolutely fundamental in our interpersonal relationships, in order to truly understand each other
 
I'm sorry, I had this thing where someone was looking for a relationship with me that I wasn't even aware of, as I thought we were just friends and was going for that at first rather than a relationship right off the bat.

I think there needs to be at least a bit of romance for it to be considered as a life partner. Maybe a kiss or touch or terms of affection or serenade, flowers or something like that???

I don't think long distance relationships really work as it takes a lot of effort to sustain over a long period of time if you are not taking time to be physically together, plus $$ for airfare, visas, passports or whatever. So yea sorry if I ghosted a few people that I know was really just not going to work.

Also, again..people lie. Like they lie about their previous relationships or two time you or whatever to keep their options open.
 
The other thing is no woman really likes being the 'mail order bride' . Sorry guys to me it feels a bit icky.