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    therapy and non-believing family members

    Hi Caroline! I don't believe there is any issue with going to therapy and being a good, devoted Christian. After years of dealing with some really negative habits and trying to lean solely on myself and a relationship with God, I came to the understanding that I also couldn't do it on my own...
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    Toxic Males

    I have some shortfalls in this area, unfortunately. One of the staples of people in this cluster is a lack of impulse control. If I can take a WWJD moment, then we're all good. If I can't divert my focus, then it normally doesn't end very well. It's the latter most of the time. Any...
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    Major faith roadblock

    I believe we always need to remember that we're playing for the next life and not this one. As grandiose as I can be, I'm not even going to begin to pretend I have a firm grasp on what the all-knowing creator has intended for my life. Growing up a Christian all of my life, it wasn't until my...
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    Struggling

    Welcome! Regarding your distrust for those in power, clergy is actually one of the top 10 careers chosen by psychopaths. They choose it for the exact reasons you listed. They like the power and control that it gives them. It's important to also remember that for every bad apple out there...
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    How Can One Pick Up on Red Flag Levels of Addiction/Mental Illness, Especially Online?

    There are so many mental illnesses out there it's hard to sum up a list of red flags. I certainly can't speak to many of them. Until a few years ago I wouldn't have acknowledged that anxiety or depression were real things; all a choice of the impacted to feel that way. That said, I can speak...
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    Hello

    Welcome! I'm new here as well and find myself in a very similar situation. I have the basics down, but my in depth understanding and even ability to understand is subpar at best. I have a personality construct that makes forming connections and holding attention quite challenging. There are...
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    Hello

    That's a welcome suggestion, Cold. It seems so simple, yet it's something that hasn't occurred to me. If nothing else, an added conversation with God never hurts. Appreciated; that's why I'm here!
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    Hello

    Hello everyone and thank you for the opportunity. I have a particularly difficult time focusing and learning from reading the bible alone. I look forward to learning and growing as a Christian and a person.