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Hi! Not sure if you saw my response the this but, I sort of listed out my reasons for not doing that. I’m not going to leave him. There’s no reason to we are not fighting or hostile with eachother. There just isn’t the intimacy and affection I would like (understandably so). He has been pretty...

This is absolute Gold. Thank you.

I meant to reply to you on the reply above us

Thank you so much. You’re right. There is something special about this man. He is steady and consistent. He means what he says and Ive had the privilege of watching him grow into a strong leader the past ten years. I can only hope over time he gets to know Christ and through knowing Christ, he...

you have no idea how much that means to me. Throughout this whole last week when I was agonizing over this, 2 Chronicles 12:7 carried me: When the Lord saw that they had humbled themselves, the word of the Lord came to Shemaiah. They have humbled themselves, I will not destroy them, but I will...

Beautiful. Thank you. Thank you so much

Thank you all again for your comfort and hope. I appreciate you all.

Thank you so much. I will keep your words in mind. I appreciate your time.

Thank you for your advice. It is difficult coming home at night after work to a cold husband. And it is difficult being in my home because none of it feels real, and I will take space, but I won’t move out. I won’t leave my children without their mom and dad in one place unless that is what my...

And yes, we are still living in the same house. I hope forever.

I am. I am so blessed to have an army of women with me. They are incredible support. I just feel my weight is heavy and I can’t always put it on them. So I came here in hopes that I can process more with Godly people. God is so good is the support he provides. He didn’t make me do this difficult...

He refuses counseling. Does not think it will help him. I’ve tried for years and years. I just tried on Monday evening again.

thank you for your advice. I’ve had fleeting moments this past week where I thought it was a mistake to have told him. That I should’ve kept this hurt to myself, but I also feel like God convicted my heart to do this. Especially because it was not out of the blue. He asked me some very specific...

Thank you. I do find comfort in shifting my focus to my children, but the weight of my guilt is heavy. He is extremely difficult to comfort emotionally as he will not receive it. He asks to be left alone and him, being a super quiet, cold, no empathetic person, I think that’s the best thing I...

Thank you. I am in counseling and I love it. I started a couple of weeks ago. My husband refuses any kind of counseling. I’ve tried for years.

Hi Johnathen, I’m here to let you know that I was your wife. i was the drunken, out until 3 am, destroying everything in my path wife. My husband hated every second. Additionally, I did other things to destroy our marriage. Let’s just say he has more than biblical grounds for divorce. We are...

Hello all. I am new to this forum but found comfort in reading some other posts about this subject. A little backstory. I am a born again Christian. I have been saved for about three years now. Before I was saved, my soul was tormented completely. I grew up in an extremely dysfunctional home...