It's ok. Welcome to the beginning of your life. You do realise that love cannot be forced don't you. Just keep trying. It is not the end of the world. The first few times of heartbreak is hard. You will get used to it. If that person was meant for you, God will unite you with him.
If it is not...
I come here when i get the time. Just to spend time with people with matters related to faith and life. Keep it easy. I try to be here when I can. That's what a community is about. But life is usually busy for me.
Just be there for them. Be available to spend at least half an hour a day just to talk to them about their school life and their day to day activities. Help them understand life. Support their interests. Teach them right from wrong.
Reward them for what they do right and punish them if they do...
I flush the toilet after use of course :) I have yet to help out on cleaning at home. Thanks for reminding me.
My current job is such that I attend nature's call wherever I go. Toilet. Out in the open. Such is the nature of my job. Excuse me for my honesty.
I'm in a rush all the time. So when...
If i don't ask no questions, I don't get no lies.
Who else but education helps build the wall with all the bricks on them? Do we need such education for kids in general?
On reading the other replies, I gather it must be hard for you. Have you considered separation from him? Better to live your life away from such a man that beats and physically abuses his wife than with him and the kids. Him mistreating you would have a lasting effect on the kids.
Separate and...
God accepts us exactly the way we are. He is your spouse. So what if he believes differently from you. You are called by God to accept him as he is and love him. Don't let your faith in God stop you from accepting and loving him as he is. Respect what he believes in and give him space. You be...
You must realise that we as men don't and can't always be honest emotionally with women. I'll tell you a little about me. I wanted to marry being a virgin. My mother taught me that. We are all taught things in our lives and we try to live up to them. And we fail. I am neither married nor am I a...
Yes, I am a man. I never said that it wasn't hurtful for the woman. Please read what I shared carefully. There are far worse hurts than that. Both men and women are capable of the same things. It is awful to be betrayed. I just tried to help as best I could according to my life experiences. I am...
Your husband is a human being. He isn't a machine. You have to accept him as he is. Not for who you want him to be. Didn't you promise, "In good and bad, in sickness and in health."
You're old school. I respect you for your values. It's fair to expect your spouse to love you as you love your...
Someone beat me to it. There you go. You can spend an eternity mastering the art of doing someone else mentally. You can communicate your dominance and test your mental endurance and build resilience through this amazing game. The oldest of board games. You will never get bored.
Old school...
Don't know if I posted this song already. The only Petra song I like and listen to. Haven't heard a lot of songs of theirs except this one. Used to hear it in the radio from back in the day
This is a song we listened to on our way home by school van. Brings back memories. One of my favourite songs from back in the day. Who let the dogs out, I'm blue, Bon Jovi - it's my life, Eminem, etc. Greener days. Lol
You only need give what you possibly can. People who give, give from their surplus usually. Although you can be generous, remember that you belong to a family as far as financial expenses go. Your faith in God and fellowship in a Church should help you support the family. Give what you can. Not...