Thank you, I truly appreciate your kind words and prayers. I’m holding to Gods promise, He will never give us more than we can bare. I never thought my husband would do this, I was totally in shock, still am.
Well I haven’t been on here for awhile. Update...my husband told me he didn’t love me anymore and he didn’t want to try and make things work he just wanted out. After much begging and pleading he reluctantly agreed to go to counseling but only went 2 sessions, once together and once alone based...
Thank you for your insight. I can only guess about my husbands salvation since it’s not my place to judge. I can say he says he is saved and he was not like any of this prior to marriage. I would not have married him had it been this way. I’m not perfect by any means and never have or will claim...
If you ask him if he wants kids he says yes but he won’t talk to me about it. Just like everything else. He’s not an emotional person but he acts like my tears bother him but he doesn’t say anything just looks at me looks sad and waits for me to stop. He’s never mentioned divorce he doesn’t...
I just want you to know I appreciate you. I’m not asking anyone to take sides especially since obviously you are only hearing mine. I’d love to hear my husbands side myself but he refuses to talk to me. Just as I’ve said before he is a good man and I have never put him down to anyone. What I...
Thank you and as I said before I always uplift my husband in front of others and in private. I don’t want to put him down I’ve wanted to help him. I don’t believe he’s a bad man at all I just know we are not in a good place as husband and wife and it is not healthy. I’ve asked him to go to a Dr...
Thank you. I am a Christian, have been for 35 years. My husband says he is but he never wants to go to to church with me. He does go which I’m thankful for but I wish it didn’t feel like it was forced.
As I said before I went to counseling ALONE. I was and am willing to change if anything I’ve done caused any of this but I know it hasn’t. I want the one who changed he did. The counselor basically told me she couldn’t help if my husband wasn’t willing to come and he isn’t. I can’t make him..I...
If he’s depressed he needs to seek help. This hasn’t just been going on for a few months....it’s been 10 years. I think I’ve been quite unselfish. He can’t hurt me with anything he does or days anymore than he already has. He’s broken my spirit and me emotionally as a person. I would help him in...
Thank you so much!!! This is exactly how I’ve been feeling. If the roles were reversed he would only have to ask me once. I’d be doing whatever I needed to, to try and work on things not make him beg me for years and refuse.