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    Personality Types?

    I see my self as a introvert that sometimes becomes a "social chameleon". If people around me are quiet and minding their own business, I do so also. If the people around me are more upbeat and social, I will also become like that. If the people around me have a sense of humor and are laughing...
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    Do ‘looks’ matter to YOU?

    I have noticed that looks can grow on me when I get to know them better as a person.
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    Has Anyone Ever Been Given a "Personal Prophecy" Predicting a Future Spouse and Family?

    You're escaping the false prophecies but also the true prophecies. Also, there are conditional prophecies that may or may not come to pass depending on one's actions and decisions.
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    Letter to my fellow Christians

    You make some points that have some truth in them, but from what I can tell, you have a very individualized view of Christians. Individualized as in I have not seen Christians act in some of the ways you mentioned. Also, doesn't the bible mention the fact that "God's name is blasphemed among the...
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    How to deal with wet dreams

    It's not nothing when you feel like this situation can lead to greater sin and addiction. I don't even care if it is a sin. I don't like them and I am pretty sure they lead to increased temptation during the day.
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    How to deal with wet dreams

    Hi all. I am really tentative about posting about this, but I am kind of desperate at this point. So some history... I was addicted to pornography for 7 years until I was set free by God. It has been about 1 1/2 years since then. The problem now is that I average about 1-2 wet dreams per...
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    How to date introverted Christian men?

    Can confirm. I am/used to be an introvert (less so now I think), but I did reach out to a girl to show that I was wanting to go deeper in a relationship (didn't specify romantic; didn't want to go too far and alienate her). In person, it was hard to show that I was interested, but I did things...
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    How to identify the right partner for love among your female friends?

    I don't think it would work out well for me that way. I cannot feel comfortable around a girl who I barely know and immediately seek to become romantic with. I need to know the person really well before I am attracted (otherwise it seems more like lust). There was this one girl that I took no...
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    Homosexuality = Wrong CHOICE

    Totally off topic, but I like the similarity between our usernames.
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    Homosexuality = Wrong CHOICE

    Because we care enough for them that we do not want them to perish. True love calls out errors as to keep one from disaster.
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    Homosexuality = Wrong CHOICE

    I used to like sugar and desert, now I can't even eat fruit, or even something with barbecue sauce on it due to my disgust with sweetness. So the food analogy is not really that accurate. The thing is, God is an Almighty God. WE can't change ourselves. God can. I used to be addicted to...
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    Looking for friends!

    There was a dude that came to our church in Boulder, CO, USA from Australia today. I wonder if he lives in the same region/area as you do.
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    Cheating

    Honestly I feel like every single man has done this to some extent. It is nearly impossible not to do. Do not worry though. Looks are not the most important thing. When I start looking at a girl (subconsciously at first), I realize what I am doing and tell myself that I do not even know them...
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    Annoying things it seems like only you notice...

    When people say "Pitcher" instead of "Picture"
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    Did you / Will you Attend your high school PROM?? (POLL - Choose ALL that apply)

    You got married at 17? Wow. I haven't even been in one relationship yet and I'm 19.
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    Nature lovers: Share you adventures here!

    Near Buena Vista, Colorado, USA https://photos.app.goo.gl/AuenRBDXtm2YejBx1
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    Did you / Will you Attend your high school PROM?? (POLL - Choose ALL that apply)

    I would have felt so out of place. Never had (or have) been in a relationship before, so I had like zero experience or confidence to have a date. Additionally, I heard that it was just really weird dancing and such. Not my sort of thing.
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    Trouble with Lust (Pass if you don't want to read about this "messy" topic)

    Hello folks, This is my first post here on these forums. I am deciding to ask for some help with the issue of lust. Sometimes I am just walking to classes or lunch and see women and suddenly have really perverted, nasty thoughts. When I realize that I am thinking this, I very much want to...