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  1. Doodahdad

    The body as temple for holy spirit

    Let’s not throw the baby out with the bath water so quickly…. In many cases, men or women who have had sex before marriage likely had it before they got saved… and if that’s the case, once they gave their life to Christ then all their sins are washed away, and God remembers them no more… and...
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    Foreplay before mariage

    As Christians we should not shy away from these questions…The Bible basically says if you can’t control yourself it’s better to get married… then after that it’s anything goes! God designed married couples to enjoy being with one another, and a good healthy marriage will have a very powerful sex...
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    Why Don't We Ever Hear About Wives Who Are Addicted to Porn?

    Can we just call it what it is…? IMHO, anyone who watches porn (male or female) is fantasizing about a degree of sex that they are not getting and are secretly wanting. After all, we all have sex to achieve the ultimate goal… the “earth shattering, screaming, knock the pictures off the wall”...
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    What’s a man to do?

    thank you so much Tourist... I humbly appreciate that!!
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    What’s a man to do?

    Hi TM19782017 -- thank you, those are great thoughts, and I appreciate your input!!
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    Hard choice

    Hi Limbo, first of all I am so sorry to hear about your son... I cannot even begin to imagine just how devastating it must be to watch your child (no matter what age they are still your child!) fading before your eyes.... I am even finding it difficult even messaging you without tearing up at...
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    What’s a man to do?

    "Would not a prudent man, at least "consider" working in an environment less stressful, for a longer future, perhaps with less revenues, then keep at your present job, where the "future", by your own admission, is looking bleaker and bleaker, on your physical, and spiritual well being? " Yes...
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    What’s a man to do?

    Hi Naybor... yeah, facing that music is very often the forefront of my mind. Unfortunately this job is a really a young mans game, and I will admit I should have made better plans earlier in life or thought this through a little better... but here I am. Fortunately I have an amazing wife who is...
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    What’s a man to do?

    Agreed nor I you...
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    What’s a man to do?

    I Timothy 5:8: 7 Give the people these instructions, so that no one may be open to blame. 8 Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has deniedthe faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
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    What’s a man to do?

    Hello Miri, nice to meet you as well!! It you sure nailed the customer service world perfectly!! I have given a great deal of thought to a parallel position as you are correct, that I have amassed a great deal of automotive knowledge over the years but as Dan58 points out, changing careers is...
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    What’s a man to do?

    .... to add to that thought, what I do work for is so that my family will want for nothing, and I am not talking about possessions but the things they need ... like good health care which can get very expensive, a comfortable but modest home (not new/expensive...built in 1969 but clean and well...
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    What’s a man to do?

    Wow.. I’m sorry but I have to disagree with you Weeden ... it’s not about pride at all ... it’s about making sure my family is taken care of. If it was about making enough money to obtain stuff or have an appearance of status as some do, perhaps I would agree with you. My family and I actually...
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    What’s a man to do?

    Agreed Kim82 .... and please understand that I do not want to come across as being unthankful ... I am very grateful for everything the Father does for me, but I am not convinced that this job is what His purpose is for me either....
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    What’s a man to do?

    Hi Didymous, you are correct of course that some of these peole are indeed lost... and the sad part is that my position does not permit me to minister to them.... I guess I have determined that the closer I get to God, the more it bothers me.... someone in the thread had suggested that perhaps I...
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    What’s a man to do?

    ....thanks brothers and sisters, some very good advise here... I guess the part I failed to mention that at 56 years old and the demands that come with this job between the hours and the stress, I am also concerned about the toll it takes on my health, I want to be there for my family as long as...
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    What’s a man to do?

    God bless all.... I am in a quandary and would welcome some input. I am a family man and the sole bread winner in our home. I work for a ‘major luxury auto line’ ( brand omitted on purpose) as a ‘service consultant’. For those of you who do not understand what that is, I am the person folks...
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    For you, my Lord

    I hear the wind as it whispers your name, Calling to me, leading me back to you. Though I may be lost, uncertain of my way, You reach out your hand, guiding me thru the darkness. When my life was empty, You came and filled me. When my mind is confused, You bring me clarity. Your love surrounds...