I think, the most important quality that you search in a man is the man who is saved in Christ, who has been walking through sactification, who is working on his spiritual life, who loves Jesus and His church.
Genesis 2:18: "The Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.
I thin, we all should marry and stay in a married life. Marriage is a blessing for all of us as believers in Christ. I pray for you all that may God bless you with a godly spouses !