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  1. Joshua_Belyeu

    Playing On My Fears With The Chat Room's Background Feature

    With snakes in particular, its a very deep-rooted fear that goes all the way back to my school days. I think I was in a museum or something, casually passed by one's cage, and it struck at me without any warning. I couldn't have been more than 10 years old, but inside I was half that age. Ever...
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    Playing On My Fears With The Chat Room's Background Feature

    RoboOp, Yesterday afternoon, I was carrying on a conversation in the Bible Study room of the Chat app. When I casually mentioned I was afraid of snakes, someone (I don't don't who) immediately switched the background to a coiled rattler. I immediately screamed, freaked out, and left (which I'm...
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    How Do You Feel About Christians Watching Horror Movies?

    No disrespect, but there's debate even among pastors and Biblical scholars, whether those verses refer to Satan or one of the Babylonian kings. Even the word "lucifer" means "day star", while "satan" means "accuser" or "adversary".
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    How Do You Feel About Christians Watching Horror Movies?

    Satan did - even though it's not in Scripture, tradition says he was once the leader of God's choir. But for some reason he became envious, tried to take God's throne, and convinced a third of his fellow angels to follow him when cast out.
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    How Do You Feel About Christians Watching Horror Movies?

    Trivia Fact: the so-called Killing Curse from the Wizarding World ("avada kedavra") is actually Aramaic for "Let the thing be destroyed", while "Abracadabra" is Hebrew for "I will create as I speak". I have no problem with The Lord of the Rings, since Tolkien was an outspoken Christian (even...
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    How Do You Feel About Christians Watching Horror Movies?

    Stoker's novel was very different from any adaptation that's ever been done. Many of the popular elements were things he never wrote, such as Dracula explicitly being either Vlad the Impaler or Judas Iscariot, his loving Mina in any way, she herself being his reincarnated bride from centuries...
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    How Do You Feel About Christians Watching Horror Movies?

    I know there's lots of people at both extremes of this, but I'm slightly more to the center from the right. For example, I adore the original Halloween because there's very little blood and nudity, no explicit sex, and minimal language...even for a film made 47 years ago. The spooky nature of it...
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    What Biblical character are you?

    I relate very much to Zacchaeus - not in the monetary sense of course, but simply in his desire to be close to Jesus and help anyone he thought he'd harmed.
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    Great News About My Family!

    Very nice - Dustin has a sister from one of his father's previous relationships; her name is Trish, and she's in her 40s. Well, her son Darius became a father about 18 months ago, and now his wife is pregnant again. So that branch of my family tree is definitely growing for sure! :D
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    Great News About My Family!

    Two days ago, my 23-year-old nephew Dustin called me up, to excitedly tell me he's going to be a father! I am totally thrilled for him. My sister Nita (his mother) is on Cloud #9, by her own admission; I already teased her by saying "Congrats, Grandma", which made her laugh. If all goes well...
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    struggling with singleness

    Whenever someone implies I should be grateful for being single because it would bring me closer to God, they have no idea how the core of my being boils over that. It takes all I have not to scream in response, "I've only loved one woman in my life that way, and it's been almost 20 years! My...
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    struggling with singleness

    No offense meant at all, but this seems very similar to the classic "God is all you need" mantra, which I do not believe in the absolute sense. Here's the reason for my stance - if that were true, then God never would've made Eve to begin with. The first thing God saw in Eden which He described...
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    struggling with singleness

    I never understood the vegetarian or vegan mentalities. Now admittedly, I'm not much of a pet person, but I do think we should do our best to care for them gently as stewards, like God would expect us to. Having said that, we also need to recognize that they are not our equals, and stop treating...
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    struggling with singleness

    Generally speaking, I can be fairly territorial with some things, but I'm not mean-spirited or super-strict about it; I just don't want to be a doormat. If the woman I end up marrying expects me to compromise on certain things, then she must be willing to do the same.
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    Avoid Christian Cupid's Dating Site Like The Plague...

    Well, the small place I live in doesn't appear to have any single Christian women my age; I'll be 45 in August. The church I go to is largely divided between two groups: couples 65 and over, or the same who are my age with kids. The main reason that I decided to try online dating was because my...
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    struggling with singleness

    I have said this for years - "If singleness is a gift, I want my receipt!"
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    Avoid Christian Cupid's Dating Site Like The Plague...

    Hey, all. About two weeks ago, I closed my account on Christian Cupid, having signed up in February. In short, it was a total disaster - people were using false profile pictures, no details on their own pages, and asking me questions they could've learned the answers to from reading my own...
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    Tell me a random fact 🙂

    Here's a list of oddball facts for y'all, that I found some time ago... 1) Men can usually read smaller printed words, but women can hear better. 2) Coca-Cola was originally green. 3) It is physically impossible to lick your own elbow (admit you just tried it). 4) Alaska has the highest...
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    Americans and Mediocrity

    On a certain level, I do think some Americans have become far too content with "just skating by". Like others have mentioned, our current school system rewards silence, obedience, and compromise...all of which tend to favor girls far more often than boys. So if a female student is focusing on a...
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    Are You a Professional Crafter?

    I used to tinker with things like painting on glass and making my own greeting cards as a kid, but haven't kept it going in years. I am a moderate Photoshop junkie these days though, so I make custom covers for my home video collection as a hobby.