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    Lost in relationship

    Sorry for the late response, I haven't been on here in a while! Of course the past year or so has had its ups and downs (as life usually does), but I have been able to focus my mind on God more than ever before in my life. My addictions are fading away, I'm spending my time in healthier...
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    Lost in relationship

    Thanks to everyone for the advice. It’s been like a month and a half since we broke up and I feel much better. There’s still pain remembering the good memories, but knowing that the burden of the bad is gone is very relieving. I’ve been praying every day (something I didn’t used to do so often)...
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    Lost in relationship

    I’ll agree with that partially. I already apologized for even bringing up the bikini because I realized that was an unnecessary argument stemmed from my jealousy. Had it been a year ago I wouldn’t have thought twice about it and in fact we have gone to pools before and I didn’t even think about...
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    Lost in relationship

    I’m new to this kind of love and didn’t know how hard it was!!!! 😂
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    Lost in relationship

    My biggest fear is that what she’s done is normal and I’m just overreacting. Is it too much to expect 100% faithfulness in a partner? I never looked at another woman while we dated but as a guy maybe it’s not the same because we are limited to our options and aren’t tempted by girls constantly...
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    broken heart

    I can relate to the guy here and want to thank you for pointing out some mistakes I made and I really learned from this post. You helped me understand how my girlfriend felt when she started to stray from me. We dated as soon as she started college and she felt I was keeping her from going out...
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    Lost in relationship

    I don’t believe there was anyone else in the picture, but am sure that she was wondering if the grass is greener elsewhere, as shown by her actions. It’s ok, I’ll get through the pain and will eventually find someone who has the same goals and values for a relationship and will put God at the...
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    Lost in relationship

    Thank you all, I’m going to a campus church group tonight in hopes to make some friends and worship together. Being 9 hours from my home and my friends makes this even tougher than it already is. Your reassuring words have helped a bunch.
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    Lost in relationship

    Well I have made the hardest decision of my life. Right after I looked up and saw a cross on my door. Then looked in the mirror and saw the cross I wear around my neck. God is working through me and comforting me in my deepest pain. I’m blessed to have such magnificent, special love from God.
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    Lost in relationship

    Then I open my bible and read about Hosea being reconciled with his wife who was a prostitute and wonder maybe I’m just not being patient enough and allowing her to grow in her faith. But then she texts me saying I wish we could talk about something else besides the Bible. I don’t know. I’m so...
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    Lost in relationship

    I want more than anything to be patient and see if things change, but don’t know how long is too long. She’s is a really amazing person, but with no foundation spritually, it’s impossible to see life in the same way. Things like modesty and loyalty and trust seem like such solid justified...
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    Lost in relationship

    Thanks for sharing subhumanoidal, I’m sure it’s hard to bring back the memories. I’ve known that phrase that you can’t change someone so marry who they are now, but I guess I’d hoped that since she’s two years younger, she’d have gained patience and faith and such over those two years. I asked...
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    Lost in relationship

    Hi everyone I usually try to figure things out myself and I have prayed a lot, but I just need some help from the community that I know will give the best advice, from the Bible. I have been with this girl for two+ years. She’s the first long term relationship I’ve been in and we are both in...