Can You Handle Being Called Crazy? Can You Handle Being Called Stupid? Can You Handle Being Called Crazy Stupid?! 🤣

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Can You Handle Being Called Crazy, Stupid, or Even Stupid Crazy?!

  • No, I can't handle being called crazy.

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"WHY?"

"Maybe he wanted to be able to come home and find ONE of them in a good mood."
 
I dunno... Solomon was the wisest person ever and he said everything in life is pure worthless.
And as wise as He got really crazy about women. I don't think any man has ever outdone his record. 🤦
 
"Intensity" is definitely one of his most popular books, though I have to admit, that one didn't resonate with me as much.

For those who haven't read "Intensity," it's the story of a young woman who, by chance, comes across a serial killer. She has a chance to escape his clutches and walk away without him knowing, but when she overhears that he is holding a young girl prisoner in an unknown location, she fears authorities won't find her in time, and stows away in his motor home to try to rescue the girl herself.

Mr. Koontz's stories always have an element of hope, usually in the form of good people who are willing to take on evil, even if it costs them everything.

Here are two passages from other recent reads that really got to me.

"Saint Odd" -- A young man is trying to stop a ruthless cult from endangering his home town. He has an older female benefactor who is like an aunt to him, and this is how her face is described:

"Her soft skin hadn't wrinkled randomly, hadn't puckered her face in unflattering ways; every line seemed to have been designed to maintain a gentle and genteel countenance and to have been executed by a seamstress to royalty."

As a woman who is getting a bit older herself and who has dabbled in sewing all her life, I loved this description!

And this is probably my most favorite line I've ever read in a non-Biblical book:

"The House at the End of the World" has a chapter titled, "An Artist is a Mathematician Who Knows the Formulas of the Soul."

I get chills every time I read it.

I wish I could find this passage made into a beautiful painting in a home goods store, so I could display it in my home.

I think that my, newly 3yo, Grand girl was able to express herself with a similar eloquence when she told her mother, "Nana is a little bit old." :LOL:

And surely, I can make use of the canvas and paints that I have sitting in my studio gathering dust! That really is such an inspiring observation. I'd forgotten how truly 'living' text actually is, until now!
 
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Oh my goodness!!

I had no idea when his birthday was!!! What kind of crazed and obsessive fan am I if I don't even know Mr. Koontz's birthday?!

I'll have to include a joke about that in my thank-you letter (thank you, Magenta!) which is currently up to 6 pages.

One of the things I learned when I wrote prison inmates -- often ones with LWOP (life without parole and no hope of ever getting out) -- is that they really liked hearing about everyday life. So I learned to take everyday events, whether at work, church, or going to the grocery store -- weave in a little humor, and tell them like a story. This is why my letters -- and my posts -- are so long. It's a skill set I'm always testing out and trying to hone.

In my thank-you letter to Mr. Koontz, I mention that I was hoping to find a thank-you card with a dog on it, particularly a golden retriever. The Koontz's are big supporter of an organization that trains and provides service dogs to the differently-abled, and have adopted 3 goldens who had "career changes" (had to leave the program for various reasons.)

They believe their first dog especially was a direct gift from God.

So I wrote about my frustration in finding that EVERY OTHER kind of card seemed to have dogs on them -- birthday cards. Graduation cards. Save-The-Whales cards. But not a single thank-you card with a dog!! Then I wrote, "Ok, so I didn't REALLY see a 'Save-The-Whales card with a DOG on it, but it sure did FEEL that way!" :LOL:

I'll be sure to include that I must be a pretty lousy obsessive fan since I didn't even realize that Mr. Koontz's birthday had just passed -- and that maybe I SHOULD have picked up one of those birthday cards with a dog on it after all. :cool::p:ROFL:
That is kind of funny... and I just found out that Loni Anderson passed away today, two days short of turning 80...

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Finally a thread I can relate to.

I don't mind being called crazy. It's acceptable to be a little crazy. Britney Spears, Madonna, Beyonce, TLC, Patsy Cline have all sung about being crazy and made it popular.

Stupid on the other hand. I don't know if I can handle it. Worse is 'stupid girl'..(not stupid woman) I just think its insulting and often said by a man. But I have heard mothers call their own daughters stupid girl and it's not nice.

Of course when you get older, often wisdom comes with it. So I think we ought to give those who are younger and maybe naive some slack. We all did stupid things when we were young, because we didn't know any better. The thing is to forgive and learn better next time. Often we don't know we've done something stupid until we've learned the unfortunate consequence of doing it.
 
i certainly ought to handle being called any name. why? my parents called us every derogatory name that existed back in the 60's thru 70's. becoming a Christian is why i can handle it. it's been decades since i'v been called anything but i learned to laugh at it.
 
"fool' or 'dumb' are ok. I just react when called 'stupid' it's kind of like accusing me of being on drugs..when I'm not.