I am marvel all the way but in DC I'm a huge batman fan
I was always a big Spidey and Supes kinda girl. I told a friend of mine that in order to be a REAL comic superhero, you had to have supernatural powers or at least come from another planet.
I loved that their alter egos were at one point, clumsy, socially awkward nerds who were seen as outcasts.
I could relate a lot more to that than say Batman, because how could I ever relate to being a rich playboy in a cape?!
(Let the trash talk begin!) I am, however, a fan of Harley, because who wouldn't want an excuse to get away with causing a bunch of chaos?!
I loved the original Tobey Maguire movie because he fit the character of Spiderman I was used to, and he had just the right amount of "nerdy but could be handsome" look. While I have nothing against Andrew Garfield or Tom Holland, but I felt both were too handsome, too polished, too coordinated, and too cool for me to ever see them as the Spidey I knew and loved.
Same thing with Christopher Reeve, who will always be "my" Superman. I loved that he put just as much work into Clark Kent's awkwardness as he did when playing Kal-El.