I Might Lose a Friend Over This -- Soft or Crunchy Tacos?

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seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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Why so mean-spirited?
I know John is making fun of me for having what he sees as a "weak" response to what he was telling me in the other thread, but I have two approaches to these kinds of situations:

1. Sometimes I do make direct response threads to a conversation. But it can also take weeks and months (I had one I was struggling with for 6 months before I posted it, so obviously the conversation had moved on.) Sometimes, by the time I've worked out a tangible idea that can be turned into writing, the forum is in a completely different place so I post something else.

My brain is kind of random and I never know how long something is going to take. (I've often wondered if I have a learning disorder?)

And then the other thing to do is:

2. Just keep making threads and building other conversations, hoping that maybe other people will enjoy them. :)

I mean, what else is there really do to but move on?


I have some other thread ideas I've actually been working on for as long as 6 months or more, but I know if I post them now, John is going to say I have weak game, lol.

So, maybe I'll wait to post them, or maybe not, we'll see.

In the meantime, why not have some fun? :giggle:
 

NightTwister

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#43
For some reason, he insists I get married.

He came into Singles in another thread that said that I failed at dating because it didn't result in marriage.

But what if I don't want to get married and don't feel that's where God is leading me right now?

I'm not sure why, but he seems to keep insisting I'm running from the truth and should somehow throw all my effort into getting married.
I'm on my fifth marriage. Better not to have married than end up in a bad marriage.
 

JohnDB

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Jan 16, 2021
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#45
For some reason, he insists I get married.

He came into Singles in another thread that said that I failed at dating because it didn't result in marriage.

But what if I don't want to get married and don't feel that's where God is leading me right now?

I'm not sure why, but he seems to keep insisting I'm running from the truth and should somehow throw all my effort into getting married.
Nope....
You continue in adding words to the things I say.
*sigh*

You should really read what I say instead of assuming intent.
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#47
Nope....
You continue in adding words to the things I say.
*sigh*

You should really read what I say instead of assuming intent.

What then, exactly is your intent?

You're not telling me what I desperately need to change and am running from.
 

Lynx

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Aug 13, 2014
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#51
That tabasco sauce is ALL yours! :sick:
Actually... For all that I say I'm allergic to pain, I have used some kinds of tabasco for flavor because they had such a good flavor and such minimal heat.
 

MsMediator

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I probably like both soft and crunchy equally. Once I have had soft taco a few times in a row, I want the other and vice versa.