I dont get the question then
Shoot, I'll try anyway.
Imagine a gender-swapped version of you. Would you date that person? Is that somebody you could recommend as a date for a good friend? Why or why not?
If the answer is "No, that person would be undateable" then what would you recommend to fix that person's flaws? If the answer is "Yeah that person would make a good date" then how do you effectively advertise that person's sterling attributes to potential dates?