what about the wife who gets beat up in a marriage? how long is she supposed to get beat up? why can't she get married again when she did nothing wrong?
Read:
1 Corinthians 7:10-16
10 To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband 11 (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.
12 To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13 If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
An abused spouse can
divorce an unbelieving abusing spouse - even if they say they're "Christian". The
abusive spouse is not bearing fruit in keeping with the Holy Spirit and is also
breaking their vow to love and protect their spouse and their marriage.
In terms of
remarriage, the Bible says it depends on whether the unbelieving spouse consents to live with the believing spouse. If an unbelieving spouse is abusive, are they really
"consenting to live" with the believing spouse who is being abused? I don't think so.
"Consenting to live" with each other
means both people love each other and treat each other well. That's not the case with an abusive spouse. The abusive spouse does not love their abused spouse enough to want to stop hurting them, overcome their anger issues and change to treat their abused spouse better from then on.
So the
abusive spouse is not actually "consenting to live" with the believing abused spouse. In such a case, the
abused Christian spouse is no longer "enslaved" to that marriage. They
can remarry after divorcing, hopefully to a believing spouse that will treat them well for as long as they live.