Do christian women in general prefer a virgin man or a man with experiance?

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Oct 23, 2022
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All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.

But a man who is virgin is a bad sign, he dont have experiance and he may be virgin
because no woman ever liked him. Which is a turnoff.

Discuss.
 

Krumbeard

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All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.

But a man who is virgin is a bad sign, he dont have experiance and he may be virgin
because no woman ever liked him. Which is a turnoff.

Discuss.
My first reaction is to laugh.

But I'm not a virgin and I haven't been with a bunch of women.
And from what I can tell women aren't interested.

That's all I got. Haha
 

Lynx

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All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.

But a man who is virgin is a bad sign, he dont have experiance and he may be virgin
because no woman ever liked him. Which is a turnoff.

Discuss.
Discuss where in the world did you get this?

Wait... I don't want to know.
 

Pipp

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Thats silly.... thats like saying all ladies like a cake thats half eaten cause that means other people think it's good but no one wants a nice whole cake cause it might not taste good.

Lol truth of the matter is, when you get my age (late 30s) its fairly rare to find single, Christian, virgin men or women... but alas they're out there.

That being said if said person is a virgin because they are creepy or strange or annoying... not because they are trying to honor God by staying pure, then you cant really feel bad at others for not choosing you as a partner.
 
Mar 4, 2020
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All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.

But a man who is virgin is a bad sign, he dont have experiance and he may be virgin
because no woman ever liked him. Which is a turnoff.

Discuss.
It depends on the person. Some women would actually be surprised if someone is a virgin once they reach a certain age, regardless of if they are Christian or not. I would say being a virgin versus or not being virgin can both raise red flags depending who you ask.
 

Lynx

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I'm just wondering if somebody really believes no women are choosing him because he is a virgin. That could be a big red flag itself.
 

Subhumanoidal

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"General" and "most" = coming with no provable facts, just making broad, sweeping claims.
In 47 years I've yet to meet a Christian woman that thinks this way. So where are all these "most" Christian women that think this way?
 

ThewindBlows

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All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.

But a man who is virgin is a bad sign, he dont have experiance and he may be virgin
because no woman ever liked him. Which is a turnoff.

Discuss.
Fornication is never a good thing
 

Ilive4Jesus

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it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
Well,
they must not liked him enough if he's available to become someones husband
 

TabinRivCA

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Oct 23, 2018
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All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.

But a man who is virgin is a bad sign, he dont have experiance and he may be virgin
because no woman ever liked him. Which is a turnoff.

Discuss.
You're conflating how Christian women think with secular woman. In my circle, it would be highly frowned upon to regard a man's 'experience' as a key issue, however I do know a few carnal Christians who possibly would be pleased with that.
No, that's not a qualifier on most Christian women's checklist, a playboy background = deal breaker actually and MOST Christian women don't prefer a man w/ a lot of carnal expertise but a lot of integrity😇👍.
 

Subhumanoidal

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I'm just realizing the OPs thread history.

-Christian women marry muslim/atheists

-Christian women only want sexually experienced men

-I can't make friends, a thread where he argued with and disagreed with every person's attempt to help him
 

Kireina

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Hmmmm.... lol I am a Christian woman and I would say I don't care... what I care about is his relationship with the Lord Jesus 😊
 

Lynx

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I'm just realizing the OPs thread history.

-Christian women marry muslim/atheists

-Christian women only want sexually experienced men

-I can't make friends, a thread where he argued with and disagreed with every person's attempt to help him
Yup! That's one of my go-to moves when facing a thread like this, seemingly out of the blue.

If they have no other thread history they're probably trolls. If they have a reasonably sane history up to this point, they're probably deeply troubled about something and this thread is a symptom of a deeper problem.

If they have a thread history that goes right along with this weird new thread... Combine options #1 and #2. They're probably trolls with really deep problems.
 
Oct 21, 2022
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The man who pursue purity

A person who pursue purity will definitely understand the value of not conforming to what the world expectation/standard this applies to both sexes.
I personally witness that with men I know at my current church here and close friends

My nephew would not enter his friend (girl) room instead they open the door and he will sit outside the door as they talk. And his sister do the same she will always entertain her boyfriend in the living room where everyone could see them.
  1. A young adult guy would not go inside his girlfriend house if he know its just the two of them he will wait outside in his car until the parents arrived.
  2. Same with friends they will always don’t allow themselves to be in tempted/ compromise place so they always on open/ public area or do group dates☺️
  3. You may find this crazy at some point some of my gentlemen friends who had mentoring from their mentors at church as they pursue living in purity even in waiting…they make sure if they make carpool with ladies they tell us to sit at the backseat because they’re reserving the passenger’s seat to their future wife😅😅😅 and now most of them are married and we tell their wives about this they are amazed and the practice still happening and been passing to their single men under their young adult group

This applies to anyone and No judgement if we lost it before. The moment you decided to have this covenant with God to live in purity this is become normal life style. Be reminded we generally attract who we are, not who we want. We should aim to become the type of person you are looking for is looking for🙏🤍
 

tourist

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It depends on the person. Some women would actually be surprised if someone is a virgin once they reach a certain age, regardless of if they are Christian or not. I would say being a virgin versus or not being virgin can both raise red flags depending who you ask.
I tend to agree with your estimation.
 

tourist

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#20
All women are different.

But if we look in general, it seems that most christian woman prefer a husband that have
been with many women, becuse that means that other women liked him,
and that is a good sign etc. Also he has experiance.
I have yet to meet a Christian woman who would agree with this.