Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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did you find a girl on your quest.

Sounds like you are looking for Mary. Mary was a sinner before she came to Christ. In fact, she was nearly stoned for being caught in adultery with a other man IN PUBLIC. Jesus had to cast seven demons out of her.
Later she gave him all her perfume, that cost a months wages. She wasnt much good at housework and preferred learning to doing dishes and laundry.

Would you like to go out with someone like her?
 
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Girls like confidence. Stop beating yourself up and trying building yourself up instead. Look long and hard in the mirror and ask yourself what can I legitimately change about myself? Then just do it , get the snowball rolling downhill until it's a mountain
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But what if I cant find a girl of God ? All the girls here seem to be superficial and not marriage material. Why must I become a more attractive guy if the girl I want to hunt doesnt exist here ?
 
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Kauko said:
But what if I cant find a girl of God ? All the girls here seem to be superficial and not marriage material. Why must I become a more attractive guy if the girl I want to hunt doesnt exist here ?
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Okay forget it. There's absolutely 0 girls who are christian and are marriage material in Finland. And since you are unwilling to leave Finland to seek her out I suppose there's no reason to continue talking in circles on this thread. /Thread end thread it's over. Kaput.finito best of luck !
 
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BarbudoRuso said:
Okay forget it. There's absolutely 0 girls who are christian and are marriage material in Finland. And since you are unwilling to leave Finland to seek her out I suppose there's no reason to continue talking in circles on this thread. /Thread end thread it's over. Kaput.finito best of luck !
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My point exactly..
 
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Just to give you another example of the degeneracy seen here in Finland. One day I found a group of college girls sharing sex toys between themselves, so that one different girl would use them each day. They were laughing and talking dirty all the time. I even heard one of the girls telling the group about how she did masturbate during an exam without anybody noticing her ! The group laughed very crazily and soon they took their phones to do who knows what and started talking about their boyfriends. I was a bit drunk that time and even shouted the word "s" in front of the girls. So they started to scream and threaten me with calling on the police until I left the area laughing out loud, as I said I was somewhat drunk and not fully conscious of my actions. But Im sure I heard such things from the girls.

Sadly, those girls were the prime examples of the average Finnish young female. A dirty worthless piece of flesh with no soul. Worse than a dog. If you are a single Christian guy seeking a good wife, DO NOT EVER move to Finland ! Or you will be doomed to a life of eternal failure. Believe me, its better to be a prisoner than a Christian in Finland.
 
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Kauko said:
Ok, I have left for a while to rethink again of this.

Yes, Im sure marriage is a serious decision and I should not marry just as an attempt to cure my own emptiness. But I never meant this, actually. This was a misunderstanding. What I look desperately for is courtship, not marriage. What I seek most is spending my time with a girl. Doing things together. For example, solving a sudoku with her would be exciting. Or drawing ourselves. Or reading a Bible verse together. Or just drinking some orange juice. I dont need her to hug me all the time. The mere fact of being near her is a great pleasure and stress relaxer for me. I dont need her to nude herself in front of me. Well, I would be very comfortable if she didnt want me to see her in underwear. Her face and heart is enough to satisfy me. And satisfying her makes me even more satisfied with myself. I would be very comfortable if she didnt like long kisses. I would be very comfortable if she allergically hated being touched in the legs. This increases her attractiveness, in fact. I feel more attracted to girls who cover their entire body with a blanket everytime I appear, than to girls who would have no problem in being topless in front of me. Modesty is beautiful !
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Brother I have recently heard that if you’re not happy single with Christ, you won’t be happy married
 
Kauko

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BarbudoRuso said:
Okay forget it. There's absolutely 0 girls who are christian and are marriage material in Finland. And since you are unwilling to leave Finland to seek her out I suppose there's no reason to continue talking in circles on this thread. /Thread end thread it's over. Kaput.finito best of luck !
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I dont know whether there are 0, but I havent found ANY marriage material girl in my 29 years of life. NOT A SINGLE ONE. I have tried several times and failed all of them. I have gone to multiple churches and found no young females in any of them. I once entered a Christian youth group and all the singles were men. I dont know what to do now. I have searched in all the places where I could have more chances yet returned with empty hands. This is why Im here. I need help in finding a marriage material girl, because I cant find any no matter how hard I try !
 
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Kauko said:
I dont know whether there are 0, but I havent found ANY marriage material girl in my 29 years of life. NOT A SINGLE ONE. I have tried several times and failed all of them. I have gone to multiple churches and found no young females in any of them. I once entered a Christian youth group and all the singles were men. I dont know what to do now. I have searched in all the places where I could have more chances yet returned with empty hands. This is why Im here. I need help in finding a marriage material girl, because I cant find any no matter how hard I try !
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So you're saying the age that you have been looking a for girl of marriage material must of since you were a baby right.?.coz you will soon be 30 or already are right?..so you must of been looking ALL these 29 years for one right..so you must of started being hoping to meet some since you were still a baby....coz to say you haven't found anyone is also to imply you must be looking in the 1st place?
So when you were even 8 year old obviously pre pubescent....you were looking right?
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Encouragement said:
So you're saying the age that you have been looking a for girl of marriage material must of since you were a baby right.?.coz you will soon be 30 or already are right?..so you must of been looking ALL these 29 years for one right..so you must of started being hoping to meet some since you were still a baby....coz to say you haven't found anyone is also to imply you must be looking in the 1st place?
So when you were even 8 year old obviously pre pubescent....you were looking right?
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Well no, but I have been almost 10 years seeking this.
 
Encouragement

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Kauko said:
Well no, but I have been almost 10 years seeking this.
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So why exaggerate on the actual facts to try to make your point?why choose to put such false information?
It makes one question what else have you exaggerated in the things you have said previously about not finding someone ect?Coz with every kind suggestion made thus far to you.. you give all kinds of reasons why it wouldn't work or that you wouldn't even consider it ect..🙎‍♂️
 
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Encouragement said:
So why exaggerate on the actual facts to try to make your point?why choose to put such false information?
It makes one question what else have you exaggerated in the things you have said previously about not finding someone ect?🙎‍♂️
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10 years are not few anyway..
 
Lynx

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And a quick wikipedia check shows Finland is PREDOMINANTLY Christian. Hmm...

Who wrote that article and where were they living when they wrote it?
 
Kauko

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Lynx said:
And a quick wikipedia check shows Finland is PREDOMINANTLY Christian. Hmm...

Who wrote that article and where were they living when they wrote it?
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Yes, predominantly Christian among the old people. But predominantly atheist among the under 40 year olds.

And remember than being a member of the Church does NOT mean being a believer. Many unbelievers stay in the church just for following the family tradition.
 
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Kauko said:
I need help in finding a marriage material girl, because I cant find any no matter how hard I try !
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I know why you can't, and we can't help you.

Your expectations are way too high and you refuse to consider anybody else's ideas.
 
Lynx

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