Hi throughfaith,
Would you not agree that if you want to learn about a differing view you would seek the view from those who believe it? It would be the honest thing to do - because the same guy who provided the video you posted also has a video called '' Calvinism is Idolatry'' . So is here giving an accurate presentation?
Here's someone who is reformed giving a simple explanation: (it doesn't matter if you agree or not but at least you will be able to make an informed answer not just parroting what someone else has said).