It is the nature of the beast. We have two disadvantages when we are converted to Christianity:
- We are usually already adults and have set opinions about certain things. When a man has held a notion for 15 or more years, it take brutal honesty to overthrow it. I was born again at age 27. I had been a practicing Roman Catholic until then. I had ideas that needed to be crucified. They did not go without a bitter internal struggle
- The modern Church in most localities is run on worldly principles. It is a business and the Pastor is more of a CEO than a shepherd. And usually his salary is dependent on "his" sheep. He cannot tolerate anybody asking questions. So the Church sets a line of doctrine and no questions are entertained. The average Christian today cannot even tell you about Baptism from the Word of God. Oh, he has a line, but it is the official line of that Pastor, or organization. Inquiring about touchy matters is frowned on. Speaking in the meeting is carefully controlled. Teachers are vetted to first ascertain which line the teach. Is it such a wonder that the average Christian can go twenty years without progressing in knowledge and revelation?
God has given teachers, but they are either ensconced in an elite Bible College, or they are forbidden to teach what they have been given the Talent for by an ambitious Pastor. True education is not hearing the right thing. True education is hearing ALL views and then being shown the right way. Paul is first a Pharisee and THEN is trained by the Lord. Peter is FIRST a Jew who never eats unclean things. But THEN he must visit the house of Cornelius - an unclean Gentile. I was first a Catholic, then 4 years in Pentecistalism before I nearly spiritually starved to death. Were those 31 years lost? No. I appreciate the many superb Christians I met in Pentecostal circles, but know the great holes in their teaching - first hand.
The average young man, fervent as they may be, is released from a Baptist Bible college to function after three to four years. But a man (or woman) needs more time than that. I gave my first message with shaking knees to six people after 11 years under training. I now shudder to think of my immaturity then. Here I am now years later, and will I shudder in ten years time? Most probably. The Christian needs;
- TIME. In Ephesians 4 a man must keep the UNITY of the Holy Spirit (v.3) UNTIL they come to the UNITY of THE FAITH (v.13)
- To hear different things and mull them, all the while knowing that he/she is totally dependent on the Holy Spirit
- To be prepared to change his/her opinion - and that, many times
- To be prepared to be faithful to the Words of God even if one doesn't understand them. Twisting of words, sentences and contexts to fit a preconceived idea is poison
- To be prepared to disagree, even if it makes him/her unpopular. Many are the "popular" BUT erroneous doctrines
- To take God's Words literally and accurately UNLESS a metaphorical or parabolic meaning is clearly indicated