Bro, you're dealing with a "conservative" who has made her avatar with an "arch" saying "u my friend" in rainbow colors. Just an observation, I mean she made it, or at least uses it.
I don't think you're ever going to engage in profitable discussion with this person. It's like light and darkness trying to have fellowship, 2 Corinthians 6:14. You know her values are not light, complete waste of your time and energy.