Judgemental Christians

@MegMarch, since we derailed her thread. I'm sorry, girl. <3 Also, @seoulsearch for sure.

(joking)

Haha. No problem. Derail away. 😉

I truly believe that you should do what feels right for you and what brings you the relationship that you are searching as long as you have God in my and heart then. Their judgement is to be taken with discernment as you like we all have your very own relationship with God as And shall know his judgement if any to be known

See she’s already setting up boundaries (or the lack thereof) as our manager. 🤪

Awe. Perceived lack of boundaries. That's precious. *Diabolical laughter

I think I am taking this too seriously @shineyourlight @zeroturbulence


@MegMarch Does this have your approval? Lol

@seoulsearch Would you defend and protect this guy? 🥺

@Desdichado Is this marketable? 😂

@Magenta I am sorry, I don’t own magenta colored clothing.

@BenFTW

Is that you on youtube?
If so, thumbs up for you my friend.

Haha, thanks and yeah that’s me. Today I decided to record some vocals for the song because at first I was just winging it and making up some lyrics for the post and after I was like, “That actually sounds pretty good.” Lol

I wanted to see how it sounded vocally and what the melody would be.

Thanks. Possibly both? 🧔 lol

Yeah, yeah - you can point all the fingers at me.

I own up to my shortcomings

You probably shouldn't have given me permission. *evil laughs*

She's hired.

One thing I've noticed is that so many Christians who have so much to say on singleness among Christians and dating are ones who can't stand to be without a mate for one week. They keep a mate, even if they have to sin. So, these are people who definitely should shut up on the subject. Advice: Be very careful with choosing to taken the advice of others'. Consider their life. Are they in your shoes? Have they ever been in your shoes. Do they have your best interest at heart?

...what was the title of the OP again?🤔

haha nobodys been in my shoes cos I dont let anyone else wear them. Do you want my toe jams? . I dont want yours.

although...I have seen children take their shoes off in the library, like a whole class, and Im pretty sure some end up wearing someone elses shoes since they are all black and could be the same size and make.

Im not too sure many would notice though....

I know there's been a lot of posts since the first one. But I'm going to go with the first question. We're not prefect. If anyone thinks otherwise I won't be joining hands with them. If someone thinks they're better than me, I just don't care. Maybe they are. Maybe they aren't. But when it comes to loving someone, as a Christian you must compromise if you're going to stay. Love is gentle. It is everything the world isn't. No standards can substitute love. Christian love is very different from other love. That's why we pray. That's why we wait patiently. Don't take the other person for granted. But that's life. Prayer and faith in God will lead us to the right person I guess. By the way, I'm in no position to talk about relationships because I'm not very good at it. Was never good at it. Never had a lasting one or if I did, it wasn't meant to be and when that happens it's hard. It does hit us hard. It's a matter of the heart. I just think that God knows better. We give up and we lose so much along the way. Or at least we think we do. But in God's eyes we're always winners. God doesn't say anything negative when it doesn't happen like we thought it should because Jesus knows that's not the best for us So we wait and we pray. And I personally feel that one should keep an open heart to be loved. We must also have a genuine love for ourselves. Only then can we love others and expect the same from them. If you are considering someone for a partner. Don't judge. But always be aware of how he or she treats you. That's advice from someone who's not very good at this. So, take it or leave it. God bless. All the best

I think that I take the opposite approach. When I take advice from other's, I listen to people that I respect and want the life that they are living.

new show coming up

Christian Judgearama

this is the show where people get to judge all they like. The contestants all enter to walk on a stage and a panel of 12 random people start judging after 60 seconds of seeing them. The contestants are not allowed to say anything to defend themselves. They are just going to be judged.

"-Don’t spend too much time taking to the other person because that means they are becoming your god."

This one sounded surprising to me because if they know you believe in the real God, why would they worry you are thinking of man as God? They are obviously very different. God is all powerful and omnipotent. Man is meek and humble if he's a Christian. It sounds like they're the ones who see some men as gods, God forbid that polytheistic thinking.

"-They aren’t good enough because they aren’t a “strong” Christian."

No matter how strong a man is, in the end, it's not his strength that keeps a relationship. It's his faith in God's strength instead.