Men; what do you look for in a woman?

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Not much. "Looks" can be deceiving, some women are decepticons and some are transformers <--- (multiple meanings for this one).
I don't look for anything to be honest, but there are some things i like and some things i don't. I would never just randomly post on an open forum what i like anyways, some might just look and try to be it, or start measuring themselves. It's better when people are just natural.
 
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I wouldn't know what to look for in a woman, because i've always been attracted to the 'crazy ones'. Now, I would have to guess which of the 'boring' ones might be suitable. :cool:
 
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I am no longer looking for a woman..

But when i was i was looking for a woman that had the uplifting supportive and loving personality that would make her a good mother and a positive uplifting presence in my life..

Secondary things like Intelligence and looks where secondary..
 
Didymous said:
I wouldn't know what to look for in a woman, because i've always been attracted to the 'crazy ones'. Now, I would have to guess which of the 'boring' ones might be suitable. :cool:
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Before all this crap happened, I thought I met a suitable Woman. She was Christian. She didn't seem to be crazy(except, perhaps, in that she liked me for some reason. She wasn't Native American(less likely to be crazy IMHO). She was very shy, though, so I didn't know how to proceed. I guess I have to learn how to have a normal relationship-in which everything happens slowly. I haven't seen her since the whole virus thing. The whole normal relationship thing is so confusing to me. :unsure:
 
Didymous said:
Before all this crap happened, I thought I met a suitable Woman. She was Christian. She didn't seem to be crazy(except, perhaps, in that she liked me for some reason. She wasn't Native American(less likely to be crazy IMHO). She was very shy, though, so I didn't know how to proceed. I guess I have to learn how to have a normal relationship-in which everything happens slowly. I haven't seen her since the whole virus thing. The whole normal relationship thing is so confusing to me. :unsure:
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Perhaps you should check in with her, see if she’s okay?
 
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Everything I have ever seen anybody put in a list of "things I look for in a potential spouse" has never covered the aspects that are important to me, because we don't have words for the parts I think are important. If I tried to make a list it would not be what I'm looking for. It would be the best approximation I can find in words for what I'm looking for, but it wouldn't even be close to what I'm really looking for. But I'm not looking right now, so I don't really know... If I do start looking, I might find it is very easy to put into words what I'm looking for.

What I think I would be looking for, if I were looking, in the closest approximation I can construct from the words in the english language:
I would look for a lady who knew what was really important in life and understood why it was important. The second part is more important than the first part.
 
No children (I am am just not ready to be a father), never married, willing to wait until marriage, loves her family, loves God, under 5'7 (negotiable), and older than 24 (negotiable). And yes, I did put loves her family before I put loves God....should be the other way around, but how can you really love God if you can't love others first?
 
As always, when this question is asked, it won't yield one answer. Which is what often seems to be the intent. Various men like a wide variety of things in women.
My first answer is 'a woman who is themselves'. Trying to find a broad base answer to fit themselves into to seem more appealing seems rather fake and dishonest. And a huge turn off.
Also women whose first tactic is to emphasize or show off their body to attract men is a turn off.
 
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Very simple. Just a Christian blonde woman with blue eyes and a fit body. Putting God above everything else. A loving heart that sees everyone equally as God's people. A quiet demeanor. Humility despite how beautiful she looks (this quality would make me go absolutely gaga over her).

Did I mention it's very simple?
 
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