Can anybody help? I want to be saved/Born again. I’m Struggling about the process. If there is one?
Please forgive my ignorance, but
I’n the last year I’ve really been thinking about salvation, and becoming saved. I thought about the life I have lead, and it’s been a life of sin. I’ve done things that I’m really ashamed of.
Now I look back at my earlier days and think to myself ... “what was I thinking “? I would never think of doing any of that stuff that I did in the past.
If I was to die tomorrow I don’t think that I would reach the kingdom of heaven. I’ve read so much about being saved or born again, it seams like everyone has a different opinion.
This leads me to my next question. If I become born again, are all my sins washed away, and what are the steps to becoming born again?
I know that I have to repent, but is that all I need to do? Do I need to repent for each sin individually? I have sins that I can’t even remember . Do I need to confess my sins to anyone besides God? Do I need reach out to all the people that I’ve sinned against and ask for forgiveness? I know I’m asking a lot of questions, but I really hope someone can help me.
I really don’t know how to go about this? Should I get baptized again? Do I need to be baptized again to be saved? This would be extremely hard due to churches being closed
I have listened to different theories about becoming born again, and some people say to do it one way, and some say to do it another way
I really want to do this the right way, but I don’t know what is the right way of doing it?
Thank you for reading
Repent of your sins that you are truly sorry for your sins, and do not want to engage in sin anymore, and ask forgiveness for violating God's holiness, and confess Christ as Lord and Savior, and believe in the death of Christ that His blood is the only thing that washes away sins completely, and believe in His resurrection that God raised Him up and will raise all people in Christ up, and ask God to guide you by His Spirit to give you the power to live a life like Christ.
All sin can be forgiven and if you sin turn from it and not want to do it again.
Which we grow in Christ so people that are new might struggle with what they were accustomed to while in the world that they enjoyed, and their behavior that was not right when dealing with people.
But do not be discouraged but keep moving forward and it will get easier to abstain from sin, which we renew our mind daily by the Holy Spirit.
And we also have to forgive ourselves for our sins, and not be hard on our self as if we do not deserve salvation for God said it is a free gift, and people have done worse than you and have been saved, which Paul said he persecuted the Church and wasted it, but he was saved and used mightily by God to reach out to the Gentiles.
And in America there is much to be enjoyed, and we view people as not caring so we may be disappointed in them at times, and might go against them, so at times we might still go by that behavior but like I said we grow in Christ.
The Son learned obedience by the things He suffered, and Paul suffered many things for the Gospel's sake, and all who will live godly will suffer persecution, which that has to do with living for God persecution from the world, but a saint might have problems in their life but as long as they are with God all is alright, and it is not God giving them the problems for some make the mistake and think God does not love them, or is punishing them but it is not true.
Which the testimony that the rich live great lives who do not care about people that much who are arrogant, and self exalting, and God is not punishing them so why would He punish a person that does less than that.
But the Bible does say He chastises the saints, so they become more like Christ.
As far as repenting of every sin that you did you do not have to do that, and you will not remember them all anyway, but you could point out major sins if it stands out a lot while you repent in general for your sins, and when you repent you do not have to repent of it again, unless you do the same sin again and then turn from that sin.
And only repent of your sins to God, although you can tell your faults to another.
As far as asking people for forgiveness you might want to do that only if you have a conflict between you and another person going on at the time, or something that was not settled in the past, which that causes a good relationship between you and the person.
Because if you offended a person in the past but you did not ask for forgiveness but you get along great with that person then obviously that person already forgave you, and knows you are sorry.
Once you receive the Spirit you are born again for your sins are washed away by the blood of Jesus, and you do not want sin anymore.
But a lot of people fall short of receiving the Spirit because they do not want to live like Christ, but as long as you want to be like Christ and mean it then there would be no problem with receiving the Spirit.