well there is a difference when we are ourselves critical and harsh of others and when we use discernment and what the Bible calls right judgement. I would agree that we personally need our ease with which we judge others to be toned down, have forgiveness in our hearts and even love for those caught up in sin...but none of that means we excuse sin. God certainly does not think lightly of sin nor does He over look it...whether or not we are believers...sin is sin and it separates us from God. in fact, people will often develop a negative attitude towards God because of their sin and that includes Christians
yes God is the same now...He has provided all we need to have forgiveness of sin . a guilty conscience is not from the Holy Spirit..the devil is the accuser, not God. however we should have in place the practice of a clear conscience between us and God. I do not believe, nor would I participate in, nor encourage others, to believe some of the modern practice of never asking God to forgive me if I should sin
some teach that we just need forgiveness once...but then why does John say God will forgive our sin if we confess it? he goes as far as to say that we make God a liar if we say we have no sin and God's word is not in us
so that is very clear and sheds God's light on those who think sin is not serious if you are a believer
…8If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10If we say we have not sinned, we make Him out to be a liar, and His word is not in us.…
I don't think you have gone off track with your concerns in the least
many are leading people astray, but the Bible is absolutely clear and that is why we need to KNOW God's word and thereby have some discernment regarding all these things that are being taught that are not from God
never feel shy about asking questions