Marriage crisis

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Georgia7118

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Hello, I'm new to this chat website but I'd really appreciate it if any of you all could pray for me and my husband. My husband had been treating me like he doesn't care and just wouldn't TALK to me. After several months of questioning him he admitted to having a crush on a coworker but I pressed further and he admitted to so much more. He told me he'd been thinking about having sex with a lot of women at his workplace, looking for women to lust after in stores, work, and even driving down the rode in their car. He has told me that he wants to know what it's like to have sex with other women but can't tell me why. He also said that all of this just happened all of a sudden and that he doesn't know why. We've been trying to work through it for 6 months now with no hope because he keeps lying, changing the story, and giving me new information. All I want is to understand the situation and if he REALLY wanted these women or if they were just thoughts (because he panics easily about doing things like this and gets jumbled up). He has told me he didnt know if he loved me, that I was no longer attractive to him, and that he wants other women but cant explain why to any of those things. He later told me that those things aren't true and was just trying to give me answers that I would believe. He says he wants to change but keeps coming out with new info and lying to me. I'm very hurt and I feel unloved, unwanted, and not good enough -nothing like the other women he thought about being with. I ask that you all pray for restoration of our marriage. For the truth to be brought to light. For healing of my heart. For this to be a misunderstanding and for us to get down to the truth. Please pray for clarity in my husband's mind so I can get the answers I need for healing. For me to know truth from lies. For my husband to love me again the way he use to and even more. For us to get through this and have a lasting, Godly, loving marriage. For my husband to change. For him to find God and to truly change his heart and only desire me in these ways. I'm sorry for this being so long I just wanted you guys to have details so you all could get a good understanding of the situation. Please pray for us and please if you have any advice, personal marriage stories, or encouragement please share them with me! I need all the help I can get. Thank all of you!
 
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bojack

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Dec 16, 2019
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Georgia7118 said:
Hello, I'm new to this chat website but I'd really appreciate it if any of you all could pray for me and my husband. My husband had been treating me like he doesn't care and just wouldn't TALK to me. After several months of questioning him he admitted to having a crush on a coworker but I pressed further and he admitted to so much more. He told me he'd been thinking about having sex with a lot of women at his workplace, looking for women to lust after in stores, work, and even driving down the rode in their car. He has told me that he wants to know what it's like to have sex with other women but can't tell me why. He also said that all of this just happened all of a sudden and that he doesn't know why. We've been trying to work through it for 6 months now with no hope because he keeps lying, changing the story, and giving me new information. All I want is to understand the situation and if he REALLY wanted these women or if they were just thoughts (because he panics easily about doing things like this and gets jumbled up). He has told me he didnt know if he loved me, that I was no longer attractive to him, and that he wants other women but cant explain why to any of those things. He later told me that those things aren't true and was just trying to give me answers that I would believe. He says he wants to change but keeps coming out with new info and lying to me. I'm very hurt and I feel unloved, unwanted, and not good enough -nothing like the other women he thought about being with. I ask that you all pray for restoration of our marriage. For the truth to be brought to light. For healing of my heart. For this to be a misunderstanding and for us to get down to the truth. Please pray for clarity in my husband's mind so I can get the answers I need for healing. For me to know truth from lies. For my husband to love me again the way he use to and even more. For us to get through this and have a lasting, Godly, loving marriage. For my husband to change. For him to find God and to truly change his heart and only desire me in these ways. I'm sorry for this being so long I just wanted you guys to have details so you all could get a good understanding of the situation. Please pray for us and please if you have any advice, personal marriage stories, or encouragement please share them with me! I need all the help I can get. Thank all of you!
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I pray for you and your husband to begin anew in Jesus name .. It doesn't sound like its you as much as its himself he loves more .. Pray for the Lord to change your sorrow into something positive in your life, change it up a little .. You were not put here to be abused though I commend you for being faithful .. Next time he threatens you or throws another woman up to you tell him you're the best thing that's ever happened to him and you think you're the one who can do better, then get a lawyer ready if applicable to take everything he's got , even though you don't want to ..
 
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KhedetOrthos

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Georgia7118 said:
Please pray for clarity in my husband's mind so I can get the answers I need for healing. For me to know truth from lies. For my husband to love me again the way he use to and even more. For us to get through this and have a lasting, Godly, loving marriage. For my husband to change. For him to find God and to truly change his heart and only desire me in these ways. I'm sorry for this being so long I just wanted you guys to have details so you all could get a good understanding of the situation. Please pray for us and please if you have any advice, personal marriage stories, or encouragement please share them with me! I need all the help I can get. Thank all of you!
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Psalm 141. Done!
 
levi85

levi85

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Lord we pray remove lust from Georgia7118's husband. Let him love Georgia7118, and be a good and faithful husband to her. Lord heal and bless Georgia7118. Lord bless both. In Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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