let's start here.
"First and foremost democrats are not only anti life..."
Okay, let's talk about abortion.
first I will say that I believe it is wrong to kill a baby inside of its mother.
At the same time, and counter-intuitively, making laws against abortion might not be the best approach to actually reducing the number of babies killed.
https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(16)30380-4/fulltext
I have no doubt that other people will cite studies that show different findings. In the end, though, the situation leads me to believe that it's not a simple black-and-white issue.
Add to the situation this verse
Ecclesiastes 6: 3. If a man fathers a hundred children, and lives many years, so that the days of his years are many, but his soul is not filled with good, and moreover he has no burial; I say, that a stillborn child is better than he: 4. for it comes in vanity, and departs in darkness, and its name is covered with darkness. 5. Moreover it has not seen the sun nor known it. This has rest rather than the other.
So while I agree that it is morally wrong for a woman to kill her unborn baby, it is probably better for the unborn baby to be killed than to be born to a mother who would consider killing it.