BOMB thread.......sexual immorality!

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CharliRenee

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If you feel suspicious of warm and kind people, questioning their authenticity, I highly recommend you express more of those things more genuinely and often yourself. Not only will it feel more natural and real to you in yourself but also when you see it in others.

It is possible to have kind thoughts, words and actions. Maybe not always, but often and regular, all for God's Glory.

Oh and for you who think seeing some truths in both sides is flip flopping, my way or the highway, peeps.

I think sarcasm can be hilarious, sometimes funny and sometimes pompous and rude, oh and sometimes all the above.
 

BillG

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If you feel suspicious of warm and kind people, questioning their authenticity, I highly recommend you express more of those things more genuinely and often yourself. Not only will it feel more natural and real to you in yourself but also when you see it in others.

It is possible to have kind thoughts, words and actions. Maybe not always, but often and regular, all for God's Glory.

Oh and for you who think seeing some truths in both sides is flip flopping, my way or the highway, peeps.

I think sarcasm can be hilarious, sometimes funny and sometimes pompous and rude, oh and sometimes all the above.
I have posted many times and will post again.

Get to understand people on this forum.
Read what they say.
Try to understand where they are coming from.

I love a joke, alas I can be sarcastic. But I always try to do in fun.

We all get it wrong, if we do we need think why.

This is a virtual forum.
And for some it's their church.

I thank God for it.

Let's walk, and talk with others in here who go to a physical church the same way.
Even in my church I have had to learn to interact with people.

Some love my sense of humour others not.
So I have to adapt accordingly.
 

danja

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I have given you a winner.

Thanks for reading and not jumping to conclusions.

Thank you sister.
thank you for sharing your story,i was very touched by it .I really wish you had a different childhood and upbringing but I am happy God set you free and you are healed .
God bless you and your family
 

BillG

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thank you for sharing your story,i was very touched by it .I really wish you had a different childhood and upbringing but I am happy God set you free and you are healed .
God bless you and your family
The interesting thing sister yes my childhood was shocking.
It wasn't only sexual immorality in my life but also a severe gambling problem.
It was so bad I asked God to kill me.
Waking up at the same time every morning @4
Saying to him "Ok kill me now then I will know where I am going"
Every day when I tried to jerk the steering wheel in my car over the speed limit it never happened.

One day I woke up and thought "Ok I'm still alive so there must be a purpose"

God had to heal me from the pains I talked about earlier on.
Which is why said let's not limit it to sexual immorality.

But I thank God for my past.
Because I have been obedient to his calling and understanding of me as his kid.

Therefore I rejoice in

Romans 8:28-30
28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. 29 For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. 30 Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified.

He worked together all the things that happened to me in order to

Ephesians 2:8-10
8 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, 9 not of works, lest anyone should boast. 10 For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.

He knew what would happen to.
He worked good in this (not made it good )

Conformed me to the image o Jesus so I walk in the works prepared for me.

Those works are coming alonside people like I was.

This I thank him for.
After all what use would I be if I have not been through it?
 

CharliRenee

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I have posted many times and will post again.

Get to understand people on this forum.
Read what they say.
Try to understand where they are coming from.

I love a joke, alas I can be sarcastic. But I always try to do in fun.

We all get it wrong, if we do we need think why.

This is a virtual forum.
And for some it's their church.

I thank God for it.

Let's walk, and talk with others in here who go to a physical church the same way.
Even in my church I have had to learn to interact with people.

Some love my sense of humour others not.
So I have to adapt accordingly.
yes, humor and laughter are some of the best gifts He gives us.

My response was coming from a fragile wounded ego who needed to lighten up. ewwwe@ self centered pride. shoot, I am flip flopping, hahaha, NOT, just see where I need NOT take me or my OPINIONS (and others too) so seriously, lol.

What is that saying...are you a victim of what was said or the response to it.

Thanks for your patience in your dealing with me. And please never stop laughing.

Yes, 100%. Let's walk, and talk with others in here who go to a physical church the same way, and laugh too.
 

BillG

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yes, humor and laughter are some of the best gifts He gives us.

My response was coming from a fragile wounded ego who needed to lighten up. ewwwe@ self centered pride. shoot, I am flip flopping, hahaha, NOT, just see where I need NOT take me or my OPINIONS (and others too) so seriously, lol.

What is that saying...are you a victim of what was said or the response to it.

Thanks for your patience in your dealing with me. And please never stop laughing.

Yes, 100%. Let's walk, and talk with others in here who go to a physical church the same way, and laugh too.
Amen sister.

I don't know what you think but I think there are some on here who just want some love, reassurance that Jesus loves them and accepts them warts and all.

But a wounded person who comes here can be further wounded.

And that breaks my heart.

I think if we are victim full stop, if that is where we are at then.
Our response therefore will be that of a victim of what is said, but also what is not said.

We interpret what we think was being said.

Patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit.

You my sister I say you exude that.
 

CharliRenee

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Amen sister.

I don't know what you think but I think there are some on here who just want some love, reassurance that Jesus loves them and accepts them warts and all.

But a wounded person who comes here can be further wounded.

And that breaks my heart.

I think if we are victim full stop, if that is where we are at then.
Our response therefore will be that of a victim of what is said, but also what is not said.

We interpret what we think was being said.

Patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit.

You my sister I say you exude that.
Well thank you, much appreciated.

If and when so, it is His patience working in me.

I could not agree more about the wounded souls, online and off. Also brother, I am reminded that validation, consideration, kindness, understanding, acceptance at the table of fellowship, though rewarding giving and receiving, will be a huge stumbling block when it is expected from mankind.

He alone is our Rock.

Stay firm in the faith so we can be firm(not stumble).

Resistance is good, even though uncomfy..

Thank you for you time, insight and consideration, Brother.
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CharliRenee

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LAM may your firm foundation of faith continue to be a blessing to others. I am grateful to you, but even more to God.
 
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Just give them some puppy breath to smell.
It will melt them and turn them instantly into a dog lover.

There is nothing on earth like puppy breath.

haha

it's the other end that is hard to deal with until they get trained ;)

but I melt when I see puppers
 
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If you feel suspicious of warm and kind people, questioning their authenticity, I highly recommend you express more of those things more genuinely and often yourself. Not only will it feel more natural and real to you in yourself but also when you see it in others.

It is possible to have kind thoughts, words and actions. Maybe not always, but often and regular, all for God's Glory.

Oh and for you who think seeing some truths in both sides is flip flopping, my way or the highway, peeps.

I think sarcasm can be hilarious, sometimes funny and sometimes pompous and rude, oh and sometimes all the above.[/QUO
Ditto
 
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haha

it's the other end that is hard to deal with until they get trained ;)

but I melt when I see puppers
Puppy breath is like a cross between roses,oolong tea,and fresh cut grass.
Tangy ,and yet, not bitter. Lol

You probably never experienced it.

Hardly any have.
Lol
 
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Puppy breath is like a cross between roses,oolong tea,and fresh cut grass.
Tangy ,and yet, not bitter. Lol

You probably never experienced it.

Hardly any have.
Lol

actually, I used to breed dogs and show as well years back...also trained both obedience and protection

been in the show ring at dog shows

VERY familiar with puppy breath AND the other end LOL!

I have a very wide variety of life experiences
 

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Sorry the word "make it "sounded confusing .It basically meant people who will take the mark will lose their salvation .
This bible says in Matthew 10 :33 But whoever denies Me before men, him I will also deny before My Father who is in heaven.

Of course I will not take the mark of the beast and I don't have a revelation about when the rapture will happen .Either way i believe God protects me of all sorts of evil and if i have to i will go through tribulation ,maybe even die for Christ

I don't think people "taking the mark" had ever acquired any salvation which they might lose.


If we think more carefully about what we're actually saying... a lot of things clear themselves up.




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actually, I used to breed dogs and show as well years back...also trained both obedience and protection

been in the show ring at dog shows

VERY familiar with puppy breath AND the other end LOL!

I have a very wide variety of life experiences
Thats why they are created cute.
The cuteness cancels out cleaning up after them