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umzza

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A man at work is touching me a lot and I don't like him. Also someone at home makes me very angry.
 
Magenta

Magenta

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Have you asked him to stop touching you? If you keep letting
him, why would he stop? I pray you find the courage to speak up.
Will it feel awkward and uncomfortable to do so? Probably. Don't let
that stop you. Having healthy boundaries will help you feel better about yourself.
 
levi85

levi85

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Lord we pray let you protect umzza, for being touched by man at work, and protect slso from someone who makes umzza angry. Lord please bless umzza, and bless, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
EmilyFoster

EmilyFoster

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I’m praying that God will provide help and protection to you, Umzza. May you experience His guidance, favor and peace as you trust in Him.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Tell him if he touches you again, you'll tell your boss and file harassment charges.
 
tourist

tourist

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levi85 said:
Lord we pray let you protect umzza, for being touched by man at work, and protect slso from someone who makes umzza angry. Lord please bless umzza, and bless, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
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Please add my prayer to yours for this member.
 
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umzza

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Jan 10, 2015
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Magenta said:
Have you asked him to stop touching you? If you keep letting
him, why would he stop? I pray you find the courage to speak up.
Will it feel awkward and uncomfortable to do so? Probably. Don't let
that stop you. Having healthy boundaries will help you feel better about yourself.
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I feel like he should know better. I've thought about saying something but he does the work I want to do and I don't want to say anything because I might not get to do the good work that I like if I say something. Like he'd not have me work in that stuff. I am thinking I might say something next time.
 
Magenta

Magenta

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umzza said:
I feel like he should know better. I've thought about saying something but he does the work I want to do and I don't want to say anything because I might not get to do the good work that I like if I say something. Like he'd not have me work in that stuff. I am thinking I might say something next time.
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He is taking advantage of you and you are letting him get away with it for some possible reward. It is a classic case of power abuse. When he rapes you there will be a long history of you not rebuffing him. He will claim you never said "No" or "Stop."
 
theanointedwinner

theanointedwinner

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here's a money saving idea

if you own a house, sell your house

if you are paying rent, stop paying rent, sleep at the parking lot at the police station,

if your boss find you there:sneaky:

if cops ask why you are there, explain your situation, and let the cop know that you also feel suicidal

may this help you turn the tables around

Be shrewd as snakes and innocent as doves
 
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umzza

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Jan 10, 2015
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It stops for a while and then happens again and then stops for a while. I am not sure. I am waiting to find the right time to say what I am thinking.
 
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