trying to find a date? bah humbug

I'm 29 and I like older guys too. Like 10+ years older. My mom freaks out sometimes...but hey my dad is 11 years older than her. So I don't know why she freaks out with me.
I wonder if that's a common theme among women. I know some like younger guys...but I think most of us like older men. They do seem more mature and respectful.

I’m with you 100 % !!

There seems to be a common thought on here about serving God but telling him our desires about finding a mate. I think this is a great way to think and live, although not always easy. It was suggested to me by a good friend to join a dating site/app. I did to see what it was all about. I don't think people even read the profiles (at least the ones that are for real anyway) . I had so many fakes and scammers that I decided that wasn't for me. I wasn't too keen on the idea in the first place.
Anyway, as I went along I decided there are things that I'd like to do and be involved in and I'd try to not get hung up on dating. (hard to do at times). Oddly a few weeks ago I got a call from a relative asking if I'd be interested in meeting a friend of hers. This was totally unexpected and I almost said "no". Although it did not go beyond a couple dates it was an answer to another prayer. God answers prayers in such odd and unexpected ways!
I try to not put too much expectation into marrying again although I hope for it. There is no promise in the Bible saying that will happen. And, what God has in store is best. Whatever that may be.
So, keep trusting God!

Here's a man with a realistic approach to 21st century culture.

Of course the full analysis is much more complex, but I can't stick around to talk about it because I have a date.

Nothing! I'm such a wonderful person that I want to share with someone else. It would be selfish to keep me all to myself!
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Enough of that nonsense.

What an excellent thing to do!