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NotmebutHim

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I hope I don't get in trouble for posting this thread, but I have to vent a little bit. I don't do it often, but this needs to be said:

Frankly, I'm tired of the people who come on here (whether they're new or have been here a while) and posting threads about how the rest of us aren't "real Christians" because of our lifestyles or the ways in which we interpret certain Scripture passages.

I think most of you know what I'm talking about. I may not agree with other posters here, but I generally don't call them out and accuse them of being false converts or worse, tools of Satan.

Again, I apologize, but I had to put it out there.

Now, back to your regularly scheduled programming.

God bless all of you :cool:

- Michael (NMBH)
 

JaumeJ

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""You talking to me?"
 

shittim

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I'm not in it, there is some validity of what you post as we look at what Jesus said about these last of the last days.
He told us of how many would have an outward form of godliness but deny the powers thereof, whereas some would go on to do greater works than His.
We were commanded, as he told His disciples, to heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse the lepers, preach the gospel, etc.
Those who focus on the scripture, following as the pharisees did to the letter and not the spirit ,and stopping there seem to be what He was speaking of as we read what Book of Acts tells us of the church Jesus died to bring us.
Perhaps non, to immature, to mature and being more conformed to the image of Christ is a better way to say what was meant.
In that vein we know we must remove ALL that is not Him, as the indwelling Christ points it out to us and goes before us to wipe it from us to His glory.
So often, so very often, in these last of the last days we can be enticed to sin and accept some as an acceptable level when it is not, not at all, we are to be totally His, every thought, word, and deed.
blessings
 

shittim

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Matthew 7-5-
5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

Clearly we are called to discern sin, using only 7-1 misses the mark.
 

mailmandan

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There are genuine Christians and there are "nominal" Christians.
There are genuine believers and there are make believers.
 

Adstar

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I hope I don't get in trouble for posting this thread, but I have to vent a little bit. I don't do it often, but this needs to be said:

Frankly, I'm tired of the people who come on here (whether they're new or have been here a while) and posting threads about how the rest of us aren't "real Christians" because of our lifestyles or the ways in which we interpret certain Scripture passages.

I think most of you know what I'm talking about. I may not agree with other posters here, but I generally don't call them out and accuse them of being false converts or worse, tools of Satan.

Again, I apologize, but I had to put it out there.

Now, back to your regularly scheduled programming.

God bless all of you :cool:

- Michael (NMBH)
What is.. Is..

If someone believes that another person is under a deception serious enough to disqualify them from the Atonement of the LORD Jesus Christ then they Should give warning to that person..

Again if someone believes that other people are being deceived by doctrines of demons being promoted by a poster they Should give warning to their brothers and sisters in Christ and expose the deception..

If a person is a false believer and is under the belief that they are a true believer.. That person is in real need to be told the truth so that they may be saved from their current deceived state..
 

Bingo

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#13
"Rebuke...a time and place should it be seriously relevant in hopes of securing a lost soul,
in a kind but firm approach. Serving God shall challenge many."
'Praise God'
 

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tourist

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I hope I don't get in trouble for posting this thread, but I have to vent a little bit. I don't do it often, but this needs to be said:

Frankly, I'm tired of the people who come on here (whether they're new or have been here a while) and posting threads about how the rest of us aren't "real Christians" because of our lifestyles or the ways in which we interpret certain Scripture passages.

I think most of you know what I'm talking about. I may not agree with other posters here, but I generally don't call them out and accuse them of being false converts or worse, tools of Satan.

Again, I apologize, but I had to put it out there.

Now, back to your regularly scheduled programming.

God bless all of you :cool:

- Michael (NMBH)
Yeah, it bugs me too when some newbie states in their first post how we are all going to hell without even knowing who we are and what we are about. Blanket statements and accusations by newbies irk me too. It takes time and effort to become part of our family.
 
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Luke 14:33 So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple.

Matthew 6:24 No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other, Ye cannot serve God and mammon.

What Jesus says is working for money and serving God is not possible. Yes I am saying if you work for a paycheck and you say you serve God, you are disobeying what Jesus says. Jesus says...in Luke 12:22-34

Do Not Worry or Be Fearful
And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what he shall eat; neither for the body, what he shall put on. The life is more than meat, and the body is more than raiment. Consider the ravens: for they neither sow nor reap; which neither have storehouse nor barn; and God feedeth them: how much more are ye better than the fowls? And which of you with taking thought can add to his stature one cubit? If ye then be not able to do that thing which is least, why take thought for the rest?

To explain Luke 12:22-26
The ravens don’t have jobs or houses, yet God provides everything they need, aren’t you worth much more than these creatures? And who can add more years to themselves? Or there life? Why worry about such things when you can’t even do anything about the least of all these? (Food, shelter, clothes).

Luke 12:27-31 (Continued)
Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. If then God so clothe the grass, which is to day in the field, and tomorrow is cast into the oven; how much more will he clothe you, O ye of little faith? And seek not ye what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink, neither be ye of doubtful mind. For all these things do the nations of the world seek after: and your Father knoweth that ye have need of these things. But rather seek first the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you.

I believe Jesus makes it very clear on what we need to do as Christians, stop serving money (stop working for money, quit your job) stop worrying where your going to get your next meal, or where you are going to sleep, Jesus says the world worry’s about such things, you are not supposed to be a part of this world. Stop relying on money, using money is ok, but working for it is not. Stop putting your faith in a worldly system and preach the Gospel full time, listen to Jesus.

The second to last verse Luke 12:33
Sell what you have, and give alms; provide yourselves bags which wax not old, a treasure in the heavens that faileth not, where no thief approacheth, neither moth corrupteth.

Do you see what Jesus is saying? Every single Christian did what Jesus commands. There was no special person who didn’t sell all and leave everything, preaching the gospel 24/7. Your job is to preach his word, and he gives you the essentials you need. 1 Timothy 6:8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content. Jesus was never a carpenter the only verse you can see is his father being a carpenter in Mark 6:3. Jesus started preaching when he was 12 Year’s old according to scripture, in Luke 42-49. He never served (work for) money, he did use money though, his treasurer was Judas (the one who betrayed him).


Definition of Forsaketh according to Jesus is found in all the gospels, but I am going to use Mark 10:17-21 for this claim.

And when he was gone forth into the way, there came one running, and kneeled to him, Good Master, what shall I do that I may inherit eternal life? And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God. Thou knowest the commandments, Do not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Defraud not, Honour thy father and mother. And he answered and said unto him, Master, all these have I observed from my youth. Then Jesus beholding him loved him, and said unto him, One thing thou lackest: go thy way, sell whatsoever thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, take up the cross, and follow me.

The definition is clear consistently through all 4 of the gospels. The Word of God has spoken and commands this as a requirement to inherit eternal life with him. Jesus Christ has the ultimate authority in the Bible, the Old Testament does not teach us how to live as Christ did, that is why the New Testament (Jesus Christ’s teachings more importantly) applies to us, hence forth New Testament. Notice Jesus told him he LACKED one thing, now you can say this only applies to the rich man, but that is a lie. It applies to everyone that truly loves Jesus. In the rest of the scripture, right around Luke 14:33 Jesus addressed the entire multitude of people, rich and poor, women, children all kinds of people. Here it is.


-The Cost of Discipleship- Luke 14:25-27
And there went great multitudes with him: and he turned, and said unto them, If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple.

Reflecting of Luke 14:33-Acts 2:45-47 And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man hath need. And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart, Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved.

Reflecting of Luke 14:33 again, Matthew 13:44-46

-The Treasure and the Goodly Pearl-
Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto treasure hid in a field; the which when a man hath found, he hideth, and for joy thereof goeth and selleth all that he hath, and buyeth that field. Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.

These are the commands of Jesus in a parable, the man sold everything to inherit eternal life. Now I have heard the arguments against what Jesus commands, the biggest one is people want to point to Paul and say he has a higher authority than God in the flesh and they say, “Paul worked as a tent maker!” So sense he worked for money it’s ok. Really? I would recommend that you only follow Jesus and what he says. But let’s take a look at this argument.

Acts 18:3-5
And because he was of the same craft, he abode with them, and wrought: for by there occupation they were tentmakers. And he reasoned in the synagogue every sabbath, and persuaded the Jews and the Greeks. And when Silas and Timotheus were come from Macedonia, Paul was pressed in the spirit, and testified to the Jews that Jesus was Christ. And when they opposed themselves, and blasphemed, he shook his raiment, and said unto them, Your blood be upon your own heads; I am clean: from henceforth I will go unto the Gentiles.

Paul worked at making tents with a couple other Jews while preaching the gospel, but reading it in the entire context, two other disciples came along and he was pricked in his spirit and decided to leave to preach the Gospel full time once again. Now this passage does not say he labored (worked, served) for money, all it says was he was creating tents, even if he did work for money, he left to preach to the Gentiles after he realized he was in the wrong.

Another passage of scripture people use as a excuse to not obey Jesus is....
1 Timothy 5:8
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

This is taking scripture out of context, the title of this section of verses is called...
-Provisions for Widows-
Verses 5:1-10 the last verse says “Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she has longed strangers, if she have washed the saints’ feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work.

Let’s compare Jesus teachings with 1 Timothy 5:10, then we can understand what 5:8 means.
“Brought up children”...- Matthew 18:5 “And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.”’ “If she hath lodged strangers”...Luke 14:13 “But when thou makest a feast, call the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind. (The first Christians utilized money to rent a place or stayed at someone else’s place if invited in. Matthew 10:14). “If she have washed the saints’ feet”-Matthew 22:32 “But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren” (I believe this applies to every follower of Jesus, that we should strengthen each other). “If she have relieved the afflicted,”...Mark 16:17 “And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall they cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues.”

This explains that Timothy was simply obeying Jesus Christ’s commands, including the widows. Now 1 Timothy 5:8 is saying work as in working to build Jesus Christ’s kingdom, working serving Jesus and obeying his commands. When you deny the faith, what it is really saying is your denying that God will provide all your needs when preaching the word. If you don’t have faith in what Jesus says, how in the world do you believe he’s going to resurrect you from the dead? There is no room for Luke warm Christians. You either listen to Jesus or you will be grinded to powder. Jesus says they would reject the corner stone of his teachings. This is essentiall and required by every follower of Christ. FORSAKETH ALL!

I hope God leads me to at least one individual that’s hears his word.

Mark 11:15 He that hath ears to hear, let him hear
 

NotmebutHim

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i know that we as Christians are supposed to be striving to be more and more like Christ, but as Paul said, we "have not already attained or are already perfected". We keep moving forward toward that "high calling" or "upward call" of Christ.

If we are supposed to "have it all figured out", then why did Christ even need to die?
 

Lynx

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If anybody clams I am not a real Christian or says I do something they don't think Christians should do or don't do something they think Christians should do... That matters to me about as much as somebody who is not my boss criticizing how I do my job. My boss knows I do my job well, my boss has a high opinion of me, and the critics have no way to influence my boss's opinion of me, so I really couldn't care less.

It is tempting, both in religion and on-the-job, to point out the critics' own faults, because they sure do have a lot of them. Usually the critics are the ones who have plenty of time to criticize because they are not doing their own job. But that would be a waste of time and energy so forget about it.
 

tourist

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If anybody clams I am not a real Christian or says I do something they don't think Christians should do or don't do something they think Christians should do... That matters to me about as much as somebody who is not my boss criticizing how I do my job. My boss knows I do my job well, my boss has a high opinion of me, and the critics have no way to influence my boss's opinion of me, so I really couldn't care less.

It is tempting, both in religion and on-the-job, to point out the critics' own faults, because they sure do have a lot of them. Usually the critics are the ones who have plenty of time to criticize because they are not doing their own job. But that would be a waste of time and energy so forget about it.
Perhaps the OP is expecting a free Happy Meal.
 

Bingo

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"Is not 'our way or the highway', perhaps looked at, as a gnarly approach in
the concept of 'brotherly love'. Coming together in fellowship of our experiences,
strengths, hopes and faith, in today's 'modern' world shall be an array of differences.
Tolerance and acceptance of God's 'servants' has also entered into a new era. Is not
God...A Spirit....here lies a dilemma that has confounded the ages, and the capacity to
separate spiritual between worldly has exasperated the intelligence of mankind."
'Praise God'
 

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