New and Way Too Honest this Early On

I'm new here. I found this place because I was looking for a christian chat area where I could talk to both men and women who are believers in Christ and married or have been married. Frankly, I would like to have very candid discussions about some of the issues inside of my marriage. I feel very isolated and I realize that turning to the Word and Praying only help me so much. I do not want to turn to porn because I know it'll make my issues worse. It would be very helpful if there were any middle aged men and women out there who are married to talk to about... how to keep my marriage together because I don't believe the Lord will smile on divorce. I want to honor Him but this is a daily struggle. I feel isolated and I would like to talk to others. I realize if I talk to 40 somethings about it, especially females, there is always a risk of some 'extra' relationships starting which I don't want. Which is why I would want a christian site. I've tried talking about these things on non-christian areas and well, I end up with women liking me too much and expecting ...romance. that's not what I'm after. I'm after a wise, friendly ear. If I can't find that here, where can I find it? Point me somewhere.

Also I prefer text and low bandwidth only, and a respectable amount of anonymity. I'm in a remote location and have bad internet.

Warning, I am sometimes way too honest. Is that too honest for an introduction?
I'm in my 40's, I'm married. I'm not interested in romantic relationships, I just want to talk to people living the life and trying to get by like me.

I'm new here. I found this place because I was looking for a christian chat area where I could talk to both men and women who are believers in Christ and married or have been married. Frankly, I would like to have very candid discussions about some of the issues inside of my marriage. I feel very isolated and I realize that turning to the Word and Praying only help me so much. I do not want to turn to porn because I know it'll make my issues worse. It would be very helpful if there were any middle aged men and women out there who are married to talk to about... how to keep my marriage together because I don't believe the Lord will smile on divorce. I want to honor Him but this is a daily struggle. I feel isolated and I would like to talk to others. I realize if I talk to 40 somethings about it, especially females, there is always a risk of some 'extra' relationships starting which I don't want. Which is why I would want a christian site. I've tried talking about these things on non-christian areas and well, I end up with women liking me too much and expecting ...romance. that's not what I'm after. I'm after a wise, friendly ear. If I can't find that here, where can I find it? Point me somewhere.

Also I prefer text and low bandwidth only, and a respectable amount of anonymity. I'm in a remote location and have bad internet.

Warning, I am sometimes way too honest. Is that too honest for an introduction?
I'm in my 40's, I'm married. I'm not interested in romantic relationships, I just want to talk to people living the life and trying to get by like me.

I'm new here. I found this place because I was looking for a christian chat area where I could talk to both men and women who are believers in Christ and married or have been married. Frankly, I would like to have very candid discussions about some of the issues inside of my marriage. I feel very isolated and I realize that turning to the Word and Praying only help me so much. I do not want to turn to porn because I know it'll make my issues worse. It would be very helpful if there were any middle aged men and women out there who are married to talk to about... how to keep my marriage together because I don't believe the Lord will smile on divorce. I want to honor Him but this is a daily struggle. I feel isolated and I would like to talk to others. I realize if I talk to 40 somethings about it, especially females, there is always a risk of some 'extra' relationships starting which I don't want. Which is why I would want a christian site. I've tried talking about these things on non-christian areas and well, I end up with women liking me too much and expecting ...romance. that's not what I'm after. I'm after a wise, friendly ear. If I can't find that here, where can I find it? Point me somewhere.

Also I prefer text and low bandwidth only, and a respectable amount of anonymity. I'm in a remote location and have bad internet.

Warning, I am sometimes way too honest. Is that too honest for an introduction?
I'm in my 40's, I'm married. I'm not interested in romantic relationships, I just want to talk to people living the life and trying to get by like me.

I'm new here. I found this place because I was looking for a christian chat area where I could talk to both men and women who are believers in Christ and married or have been married. Frankly, I would like to have very candid discussions about some of the issues inside of my marriage. I feel very isolated and I realize that turning to the Word and Praying only help me so much. I do not want to turn to porn because I know it'll make my issues worse. It would be very helpful if there were any middle aged men and women out there who are married to talk to about... how to keep my marriage together because I don't believe the Lord will smile on divorce. I want to honor Him but this is a daily struggle. I feel isolated and I would like to talk to others. I realize if I talk to 40 somethings about it, especially females, there is always a risk of some 'extra' relationships starting which I don't want. Which is why I would want a christian site. I've tried talking about these things on non-christian areas and well, I end up with women liking me too much and expecting ...romance. that's not what I'm after. I'm after a wise, friendly ear. If I can't find that here, where can I find it? Point me somewhere.

Also I prefer text and low bandwidth only, and a respectable amount of anonymity. I'm in a remote location and have bad internet.

Warning, I am sometimes way too honest. Is that too honest for an introduction?
I'm in my 40's, I'm married. I'm not interested in romantic relationships, I just want to talk to people living the life and trying to get by like me.

@subhumanoid very good point, I wasn't meaning 'off forum' I was meaning in the chat rooms here. Forums feel a bit exposed because of Google's ability to cache.

I am also in my 40’s, and married. Well-educated and kind, decent person in general. We have had some faith based issues in our marriage. We went to Christian counseling for 3 months, and it helped for a while, but we are struggling again. I am also not expecting romance. Maybe we can chat sometime.

A woman in an unhappy marriage chatting with a man in an unhappy marriage? That's a total setup for bad choices. That's basically asking for trouble.

I’m taking my knowledge elsewhere where it will be appreciated. Goodbye Christian Chat!

You joined only yesterday, and now you're leaving because you were told it's an unwise idea to PM with another unhappy spouse? I've heard alot of reasons for leaving CC, but this one is new..

And nobody has said that your "knowledge" isn't appreciated. I'm sure it is.

I'm new here. I found this place because I was looking for a christian chat area where I could talk to both men and women who are believers in Christ and married or have been married. Frankly, I would like to have very candid discussions about some of the issues inside of my marriage. I feel very isolated and I realize that turning to the Word and Praying only help me so much. I do not want to turn to porn because I know it'll make my issues worse. It would be very helpful if there were any middle aged men and women out there who are married to talk to about... how to keep my marriage together because I don't believe the Lord will smile on divorce. I want to honor Him but this is a daily struggle. I feel isolated and I would like to talk to others. I realize if I talk to 40 somethings about it, especially females, there is always a risk of some 'extra' relationships starting which I don't want. Which is why I would want a christian site. I've tried talking about these things on non-christian areas and well, I end up with women liking me too much and expecting ...romance. that's not what I'm after. I'm after a wise, friendly ear. If I can't find that here, where can I find it? Point me somewhere.

Also I prefer text and low bandwidth only, and a respectable amount of anonymity. I'm in a remote location and have bad internet.

Warning, I am sometimes way too honest. Is that too honest for an introduction?
I'm in my 40's, I'm married. I'm not interested in romantic relationships, I just want to talk to people living the life and trying to get by like me.

I'm new here. I found this place because I was looking for a christian chat area where I could talk to both men and women who are believers in Christ and married or have been married. Frankly, I would like to have very candid discussions about some of the issues inside of my marriage. I feel very isolated and I realize that turning to the Word and Praying only help me so much. I do not want to turn to porn because I know it'll make my issues worse. It would be very helpful if there were any middle aged men and women out there who are married to talk to about... how to keep my marriage together because I don't believe the Lord will smile on divorce. I want to honor Him but this is a daily struggle. I feel isolated and I would like to talk to others. I realize if I talk to 40 somethings about it, especially females, there is always a risk of some 'extra' relationships starting which I don't want. Which is why I would want a christian site. I've tried talking about these things on non-christian areas and well, I end up with women liking me too much and expecting ...romance. that's not what I'm after. I'm after a wise, friendly ear. If I can't find that here, where can I find it? Point me somewhere.

Also I prefer text and low bandwidth only, and a respectable amount of anonymity. I'm in a remote location and have bad internet.

Warning, I am sometimes way too honest. Is that too honest for an introduction?
I'm in my 40's, I'm married. I'm not interested in romantic relationships, I just want to talk to people living the life and trying to get by like me.