But David repented bitterly in sackcloth and ashes and I'm not sure the preacher in question will humble himself, just as David did, because he is not attending services in his local church and is nowhere to be seen. Most church members think that his sin is one that leads to death and are rejecting him. What is a sin unto death, anyway?
One might suggest those church members are hypocrites forgetting that God forgave them their sins by His grace. They are no different than him, depending upon the grace of God. Is not restoration the purpose of correction? How then can this man be restored? If the church alienates him in condemnation they are misrepresenting the truth, but if they reject him for a time of healing that is another matter.
How can we be forgiven so much and then not forgive this preacher? Amends need to be made, yes. Positions dethroned, yes. Yet will they cast him out not willing to uplift a brother in Christ, succumbing to weaknesses of the flesh? Since when were they perfect?
These things should be handled with care. The preacher not showing up to church is no surprise. He is ashamed. Caught red handed. Yet, what if instead of the church members rejecting him they went to see him? Asked him how he was doing? Attempted to restore him and bring healing to the situation? Gave sound, godly, wisdom into the marriage?
Where is our love?