How to (appropriately) tell a girl you like her?

My first thought would be God wouldn't be directing you into expressing yourself to a person that isn't right for you. Since you have done so seemingly repeatedly, and still unsuccessful I'd have to question if God is really having anything to do with your proclamations to begin with.
But, really, if you're doing such a thing, the best advice is usually 'do it how you feel to'. Unless you have some issue which causes you to have an exceptionally difficult time in knowing such things, then be yourself. Otherwise you aren't being yourself, but someone elses version of what is 'right'. Because, really, at the end of the day, unless you express yourself in a pretty dramatically bad way, it won't make much of a difference. She either already has an interest or she doesn't. And if you sharing your interest imperfectly is enough to cause her to run, then you're better off without her anyways.
Also you could consider that if you can't even express an interest in someone how could you expect to communicate with them well, a cornerstone of a good relationship.

I totally appreciate what you’re saying and agree. Humorously enough I was trying to connect with unbelievers in Christ. That was my greatest mistake.

I've certainly convinced myself God was involved in some of my bad choices.

My first thought would be God wouldn't be directing you into expressing yourself to a person that isn't right for you. Since you have done so seemingly repeatedly, and still unsuccessful I'd have to question if God is really having anything to do with your proclamations to begin with.
But, really, if you're doing such a thing, the best advice is usually 'do it how you feel to'. Unless you have some issue which causes you to have an exceptionally difficult time in knowing such things, then be yourself. Otherwise you aren't being yourself, but someone elses version of what is 'right'. Because, really, at the end of the day, unless you express yourself in a pretty dramatically bad way, it won't make much of a difference. She either already has an interest or she doesn't. And if you sharing your interest imperfectly is enough to cause her to run, then you're better off without her anyways.
Also you could consider that if you can't even express an interest in someone how could you expect to communicate with them well, a cornerstone of a good relationship.

Hi all! I am a young adult in my 20s and pretty much have always gotten along well with women, unfortunately I sometimes struggle to tell a girl how I feel about her when I do have feelings. I trust God/Jesus and have Him first in these situations! Unfortunately though sometimes my emotions get in the way and instead of immediately praying about it I just go of emotions... fortunately I’m getting better at this and praying constantly for everything. But there are sometimes when I mess it up and make things a little more uncomfortable then they need to be by telling a woman “I have feelings for you”. While I depend and trust God/Jesus for everything I would like to see what my other brothers and sisters have to say about this too.

Would you like to go have a cup of coffee at such and such place

...you look like an espresso type of woman".

My advice is to just get to know that person as friends and let time take its course. The best thing to look for is does the Holy Spirit give you peace with that person to pursue a relationship? It also should be easy and natural with that person.

A question, a statement, and another question (feel free to paraphrase):

Are you involved romantically with anyone presently?
I would like to get to know you better.
May I take you out for (coffee/lunch/a Caribbean cruise)?

Would you like to go have a cup of coffee at such and such place

Wonderful questions Dino. I don't know about the cruise scenario, but you would never lose out with coffee and lunch.

May you be blessed with many opportunities!

Thanks... however, I'm not looking.

Give them coffee and say I like you a latte!

Hi all! I am a young adult in my 20s and pretty much have always gotten along well with women, unfortunately I sometimes struggle to tell a girl how I feel about her when I do have feelings. I trust God/Jesus and have Him first in these situations! Unfortunately though sometimes my emotions get in the way and instead of immediately praying about it I just go of emotions... fortunately I’m getting better at this and praying constantly for everything. But there are sometimes when I mess it up and make things a little more uncomfortable then they need to be by telling a woman “I have feelings for you”. While I depend and trust God/Jesus for everything I would like to see what my other brothers and sisters have to say about this too.